Can some women be more pretty in their 14s-16s and decline at the early 20s or even late 18s?

[Anonymous]

Not a pedo question i just have noticed this happenining so i believe it has to do with the genetics and life of the specific person? for others their prime is in their 18s or early 20s, others the late 20s. for others even their 30s... .

it's possible. i've seen it before too

i don't think its posible?

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by the way i don't want to make girls insecure about ageing. maturing into a real woman is the best thing that will happen to you. most girls aren't even flattered by looking a bit childish in their younger years. so ageing is far far from bad. i'm just stating that in some RARE occassions the flower doesn't blossom in those stages. for many girls it's the opposite. there are even ducklings who are transformed into swans. so we talk about a are EXCEPTION not the norm.

[Kuraj]

Yeah definitely, I remember how hot many of my middle school/high school crushes have been back then and now that I meet them or see them in social media I can't understand why I had crushes on them.

Some of my friends already have children and it shows on their skin and complexion, eyes/teeth and what not.
People age rather quickly, I don't blame women for wearing makeup and fighting wars against it.
Beauty starts going downhill fast after 25 years of age.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's true, I've seen it before too...
By the way, of course it's not a "pedo-question", pedophiles are attracted only to prepubescent children. You are mistaken pedophillia with Hebephilia and Ephebophilia.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hebephilia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ephebophilia

[Asker]

you are off the subject. we dont discuss the specifics of my sexual interests or the lack thereoff, but that in rare occasions some girls can mature really badly into adulthood even if they had great potential before.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I know, and I agree on the subject.

[Kiwedin]

Yeah, it's true. I've seen it in men as well. Guys who I thought were cute in high school, just aren't as cute as they used to be lol.

[Anonymous]

I've never seen anyone who looked better at 14 than 18. Unless they get really fat or some drastic thing.

[Asker]

i had though. two girls in my school. one was considered one of the the prettiest there till 10th grade. till we graduated there was huge downfall. i met her in her college years she was even worse. i also noticed that on some neighbors and daughters of friends. its a rare phenomenon but i've seen it 5-6 times in my life. sa some other dudes here say they had crushes in middle school who when they saw how they developed couldn'tbelieve they had crushes on them. i've also seen the opposite. ugly ducklings becoming beautiful white swans and mature into attractive women... .

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it's that people don't see people properly as a middle schooler. You're blinded by hormones! It's kind of comparing apples to oranges. I think kids barely out of puberty or still going through it have a really awkward look. But when I was that age, of course I had crushes!

[Asker]

yes you are totally right and i knew you'd say that but i'm talking about objectively becoming worse. its another thing if one teen thinks that and if the whole school thinks that. also what about now? i'm a grown man and still noticed that phenomenon 3-4 times. some women just dont age gracefully or even worse dont even mature into adulthood gracefully. its unfortunate but its a part of reality.

[RansomDraven]

It's so unfair that men get the huge age gap of hot and women peek and drop rather quickly

[dudeman]

why is that unfair for the first part of life women get treated like they are made out of gold.

[Asker]

well a woman your age could really be in her prime and look gorgeous. i'm just saying that i've noticed some pretty teen girls not developing as promissing as they showed they would. more like the opposite. and i found it surprising... .

[RansomDraven]

@dudeman I don't know what you're talking about. I don't see girls getting treated "like gold" in the first part of life. Even looking at my own son and daughter, I love and treat them both equally.

@asker I can't say that I've noticed that, but I'm sure there are cases where that has happened.

[dudeman]

well than maybe you should step outside and observe something. women are coddled, given jobs they dont deserve as well as the easiest jobs that pay well. yeah people just treat young women a lot better than young men. so the age gap is just men finally coming into their own as a man while women are women by their nature of being a women.

[Asker]

@dudeman man the only sector of life i've seen women getting jobs easier is as waitresses which i wouldn't say is the most promising carreer in the world... .

[RansomDraven]

@dudeman well I'm not here observe other women, I have enough going on in my own life, and speaking from my life experiences... I personally don't believe I was ever "coddled". Now with that being said growing up I was the dirtbike/ ride a skateboard/ get in a fight type so I didn't really fit the "girly" role well until I was a late teenager, 17? The only think it got me then was my boss forcing me to work late so that it could be just me and him who close because he was a creep. Every job I've had since I've worked for and work hard at. And maybe its just the places that I've worked, but I'm currently at a hospital and we have an even mix of men and women doing every job and nobody seems to be complaing about pay rates based on sexes. But again, that's my life.

[dudeman]

women also get preferential hiring now. a women with a degree in the stem field is twice as likely to get hired simply because she's a women.

[RansomDraven]

@dudeman I will agree with you on that alone, that is bullcrap.

[dudeman]

women also get 40% less jail time compared to men for the same crime. women also get a post conception option to get out of parenthood while men are not. bars have ladies night where women get no cover charge and get to pay less. if you really dont see that women get preferential treatment in society then I don't know what to tell you because its as obvious as the sun.

[RansomDraven]

@dudeman okay here is where you're getting confused... this was your statement verbatim "for the first part of life women get treated like they are made out of gold"."women are coddled" was the next comment that you made which I was still connecting to the "for the first part of life" comment so I disagree with those statements. I then agreed with you about the job thing, and the next statement is full of issues th at yes I agree with you however, none of those things happen in "the first part of life" so that's where the confusion came in apparently.

[dudeman]

even older women will tell you that men treat women completely different in their early twenties and early forties. they become invisible.

[RansomDraven]

@dudeman okay

[Wynstelle]

@dudeman Who gets treated like we are made of gold? Your family maybe. Not the majority of girls. You should do more research.

[dudeman]

@Wynstelle ok

[Anonymous]

Voted A.

On average the peak is later, but there are exceptions. Genetics, lifestyle etc can enter in.

[martyfellow]

Sure, in cultures where they are mothers before they are 18, they can look pretty haggard and worn out by 25...

[dudeman]

definitely. hell when i was in middle school some girls i thought were pretty in seventh grade looked grotesque by ninth grade.

[dudeman]

id say most women are on a hard decline in looks by the age of 23. some can keep it going longer but thats not the norm.

[Asker]

it must have to do with some pretty unfortunate genetic and ageing factors... . i've noticed it too a couple of times... .

[dudeman]

no i think its just normal. they are the outlier that peaked early just like their are outliers that peak late.

[Asker]

disagree with your second comment though/ look at women like bellucci. with age they becam prettire like good old wine. it really depends on the individual... .

[dudeman]

thats what i said. you dont disagree with me

[AverageJane]

I do not think that women would lose their beauty at the 23 because women now days are getting more attractive. Most women are attractive.

[dudeman]

@AverageJane nah...

[Anonymous]

MOST start hitting their attractive prime from 14-20 then 21-30 is where they have the most sexual power, then after 30 it begins to decline.

[Alwaysthere85]

I've seen it happen. I think genetics and lifestyl