Overweight should never be shunned but also not encouraged?

[Anonymous]

I AM SO SORRY IF THIS BUGS ANYONE THIS IS NOT INTENDED TO BE HURTFULL STRICTLY MEDICAL Because many beautiful women and handsome men in overweight sizes. But is it right that it's being encouraged and celebrated for people who are not happy with it and pushing people to accept and embrace their weight even though they could change it? I know what's it's like to not be able to control what and how much you eat (always hungry never full) I know what's it's like to be physically unable to exercise (head injury) I know what it's like to be emotionally unstable to exercise (agoraphobia (anxiety so bad you are scared of leaving house) I used to weigh 185 maybe more.. Now standing at 158 I always thought I feel good I feel fine but when I lost weight 3 yeArs ago and was 145 I felt AMAZING. I always had good bloodwork and blood pressure being overweight, but when I lost my
weight I was no longer nauseous every day no longer tired everyday so much energy and self esteem was better. Now at 158 I can feel those things coming back, I am now working on losing weight because 153 seems perfect ideal for energy/healthy feeling. But anyways. I didn't even know I was fat until I saw pictures and didn't know I could feel healthier after I lost the weight.. But am I being too mean by trying to promote that this shouldn't be a great thing and something people should settle for and accept if they are feeling down about it?

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This is strictly for people who feel bad about themselves. I feel bad about my image right now...

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

tl;dr- i'm fine with fat people being fat if they're fine with being fat. i hate it when fat people and sjw's get mad when someone says they're or someone else is fat. you're fat. accept it. embrace it. it's not like it's some secret. don't get mad when i, or anyone says that you (or they) or fat cause it hurts your feelings. if that was the case, put down the snacks and lose some damn weight. you got that way and you are free game. if you don't want people to point out you are fat or sjw's don't want for me to call them fat, don't let it get to that point in the 1st place. you aren't born fat and you know you were gaining weight.

[Asker]

I believe this is a little wrong because if someone is ugly to someone they could go and get plastic surgery
To fix it to their views too. I don't think it's alright to call people fat just like you don't call people ugly you don't need to project your opinion if it doesn't benefit you in anyway.. That's just my take.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

1- ugly people are basically just ugly. you can put makeup on, but you are still ugly. you can lose weight
2- if a chick asks if she's fat, expect to get opinions saying she's fat... dudes too, obviously
3- again, she (he) didn't wake up fat. if she's (he's) fat, she's (he's) been that way and should be used to it
4- if it's really that much an issue, like i said, lose weight
5- i like round numbers...

i believe if someone is happy in their skin, good for them. more power to them. i'm genuinely happy for them too, believe it or not, however, if he or she is uncomfortable in their skin because they're fat... then do something about it. people have the ability to gain and lose weight on command.

[truthhammer]

encouraged to get fat?

isn't that obvious? being fat is terrible! kills faster than smoking and drinking and is on the list for deal breakers for all non fat people.

[yeezygirl24]

When you refer to overweight or obese females I fall under that category.. im 5'6 almost 265... belly hang and all. Funny thing is all I friends are about 5'6,130 at most... if we go out for a girls night I normally eat the most... such as finishing their half eaten burger and rest of their fries... but whenever I come up with my unbuttoned pants with my underbelly sticking out they get pretty salty..

[Anonymous]

i fully agree as being overweight is unhealthy but at the same time no one should be forced to be attracted to it. not that anyone's wrong for being attracted to overweight people

[Asker]

No never that's why I said for people who Are overweight like me I'm very close but people always tell me oh no your fine it's good to have meat on your bones, you should be happy etc...