My after her biopsy tested positive for breast cancer, my sister asked me to feel her lump, is that weird?

[Anonymous]

[BeeNee]

Your her brother. She's probably freaking out of her mind as I think anyone in that situation would be, and clearly she trusts you and you are family. Look, my brother had major surgery and couldn't move from the bed and I had to empty bed pans and the whole works. It's family. There is nothing you won't do for them especially in their hour of need. Just think about it that way, not like, this is so weird.

[truthbeknown]

No, she is probably scared shitless and needs someone she can trust, don't be a douche about this!

[Asker]

I did feel it but it made me feel really uncomfortable.

[truthbeknown]

I know, but think about why you are doing it. Has nothing to do with anything sexual, total medical in this sense. That is something she can die from, so think about it as if you are helping her!

[Asker]

But how does feeling it help her?

[truthbeknown]

You are reassuring her of what is going on. You help her confirm what she is thinking. Look, I know it is odd, but I doubt she is messing with you.

[Anonymous]

only if you believe it is