Girls, what should I do to help?

[Anonymous]

Ok so my girlfriend and i have eaten bad recently and we both gained a few pounds but the other night we were both naked and i noticed she had lost her toned stomach and gained quite a large soft wobbly belly she gets out of breath a lot easier like from a flight of stairs! What should i do should i tell her she has gained weight?

[Doyoueven]

Suggest you guys start doing an active hobby together, like working out or playing a sport. And prepare healthy meal together to motivate and support each other.

Don't tell her anything about the weight gain since:
1. People in general have enough insecurities.
2. You also gained weight.
3. Your relationship is worth more than a few pounds. People want to be treasured for who they are, not how they look.

[Anonymous]

Are you dumb or acting dumb? Im quite sure she knows it herself. What you can do is either embrace it and love her or leave her so she can find someone that will.
you're welcome!