Fighting at school?

[Anonymous]

A girl at my highschool really hates me, waits for me and is harassing me, following me and waiting outside my lessons, she wants a fight with me. I've tried everything, gone to teachers, they've talked to her but it's no use, she is relentless.

I know I could take her, she's skinny and small and a year younger. But i have always doubted myself and my own strength. Also, I'm fragile and have been known to cry at things like this. I'm scared of losing and looking weak because I'm being bullied already.

Basically, what moves can I pull to get the fight over and done with quickly and easily? This girl worried me so much I've even considered breaking a bone so that she is off school a couple of months and would never fuck with me again.

I know that violence is not the answer, a fight is the last thing I want but its the first thing she wants and there's no avoiding it.

[AdamThomas]

If there's no avoiding it, tell her you don't want to fight and to stay away from you. She'll either start showing off to her mates and say some stupid shit, then you can probably leave. If she approaches you though don't wait for her to throw the first punch, because if she hits you with the first one and keeps hitting you you might just get dropped - usually in street fights it's the one who hits first and keeps hitting that wins. By law you can use a pre-emptive strike if you're at threat, you don't have to wait to get hit first, and openly saying "I don't want to fight you, stay away from me" in front of witnesses will work in your favour if it does kick off.

As for the techniques, learn how to punch, elbow and knee. Do you know anyone who does boxing or muay Thai? If so get them to teach you. A poke in the eye works against anyone too, she can't fight you if she can't see.

Of course you should try to avoid violence where possible, but it sounds like you've done all you can to stop it and teachers can't be around all the time to keep you safe, sometimes violence is necessary.

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't underestimate her just because she's skinny and small.

i got fucked up by a guy who I'm twice his size, the bro is fucking excellent at Muay Thai.

you want to win a fight? start by learning how to fight

learn how to throw the basics, left jab, right cross, hooks and uppercuts. know where you want to hit a person, don't just throw punches randomly and wildly. and learn to block with your forearms and return contact at the same time.

[chintita]

chill out with the "talk to the principal" attitude, god it's like you guys were never teenagers.

what you do is you be extremely laid back, don't initiate anything; shit talking is your friend. as soon as she throws the first punch, she's bound to get into trouble for it and you can beat her ass with an excuse. the only rule is there are no rules, make sure ur hair is out of the way and don't hold back just because she's skinnier because she most likely is more skilled than you. good luck, fighting isn't something that should be encouraged but you gotta do what you gotta do.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't even fight her however if she does start a fight try pushing her off you and get out of there! If you honestly feel your safety is at risk tell your parents or the police. This girl maybe a violent ticking time bomb.

[Asker]

She is! Exactly that has already happened, I pushed her away, want for help and now my entire grade and hers calls me a pussy. I really don't want to fight but if I gotta...

[Opinion Owner]

you're not a pussy, frankly if it was me i wouldn't want to fight because you dont know how far the person will go to hurt you. The fact that no one has helped in stopping this bully is terrifying. It also seems like she's a stalker... id tell your parents.

[Asker]

I have, who've gone to the school and still nothing has been done. I leave in 9 weeks, but I feel like she will continue

[Opinion Owner]

If she continues to follow you especially out side of school it can be a police matter. There are some stalking laws out there. I know you were asking for answers on how to fight this girl but im worried about your safety. why does she even want to fight you?

[ATPPC]

You want tips on how to beat up someone?

1) Don't throw looping punches. Directly hit her on the nose.

2) Know how to throw a front kick right into their stomach. Basic martial art move look it up on YouTube.

3) Up close use your elbows to strike her face. If it lands anywhere it's going to hurt like hell for her.

[ATPPC]

Just note the teachers won't give shit who started the fight. If you hurt her more than she hurt you, you are probably the one in bigger trouble.

[RobAtomic]

Maybe get together with some one at the local training club and do it that way if you have to. Put gloves on or go bare knuckle at least have an adult there who can keep it clean and fair and safe, there is no reason to get into a fight where you or the other girl could really get hurt... make it a clean fight above the belt and " LET'S GET READY TO RUMBLE "

[chrisbigman]

Why haven't you gone to your parents? If anything, go back to your teachers and tell them that she is still bothering you. If necessary, go to the principal or the school liaison officer/security. Those that are smart avoid conflicts whenever possible. If she attacks you, then defend yourself the best you can (kick or punch).

[Asker]

I have, I've been to every relevant adult and they are waiting for something else to happen between us before action is taken

[chrisbigman]

If that's true, then go to the police. But I find that rather hard to believe. If your parents, teachers, principal and security officer are ALL waiting for something else to happen, then there's something VERY wrong here. People should not be reactionary unless it can't be avoided. People should be PROACTIVE - NOT reactive.

[Notreallyhere]

Hit first, hit hard, and don't stop till they taze you. You should win.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Why not report her and have somebody contact her parents? If she harasses you she could be expelled.

[Asker]

Reported her, they isolated her for 1 day and left it at that

[RJGraveyTrain]

I'd say fight it and continue to report it, if they still do nothing have your parents take it all the way to the school board.

[Asker]

I would but I'm literally just scared (terrified) of a fight, though I know I could hold my own

[RJGraveyTrain]

If the right people get involved there will be no fight, and if she still tries what's the difference? You expect her to fight you regardless so why not opt up for the potentially less violent option? If you fight her and you win, you also get in shit for participating and beating her ass so what do you have to lose?

[Asker]

Yeah, you're right, thanks

[RJGraveyTrain]

You're welcome and good luck. I should say though, if you have no choice but to defend yourself then you should, but don't take it beyond that.

[Electronica]

BOO! Fight her.

[BellePepper]

Talk to your parents and have them light a fire under the school's administration. It's not okay for people to bully you.

[yunggRooster007]

Beat that bitchs ass.. fuk that shit teach her a lesson..

[Asker]

How? What exactly do I do? I'm weak but she's weaker.

[yunggRooster007]

Jst punch her nose... iv been bullied all my life cuz i look like a good kid.. but i always fight.. n liddle do they kno im gang related.. not saying u shoyld b gangbanging.. jst show them not to fuk with u...

[Asker]

Thanks

[yunggRooster007]

One more thing.. dont start it.. n befor u hit her.. yell i dont want to fight ! Haha a little tip from a older friend.. jst incase u hurt her at least everyone knos u didn't want to do that it was self defense !

[Asker]

Of course, that's the way I am. I could never start a fight but I like to think I could end one if necessary.

[yunggRooster007]

Lol u probabky can.. watch boxing vid wen u get a chance maybe ufc xD get u a little warm up b4 the big day

[yunggRooster007]

O n dnt worry about loosing or looking weak? Wth ur a girl.. girls aren't supposed to act wuld like that hoodrat... ur fine jst the way u r

[Prince_teddy4u]

Baby, give her a nice punch with all the strengths you have. Let's see if she really wants to beat you or is it just your imagination.

[Anonymous]

talk to an adult