Have you ever known someone that moved away leaving you feeling lost and hopeless?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever known someone suddenly and unexpectedly just up and moved away without you even knowing leaving you feeling so empty lost and hopeless? If so how did you deal with it?

[Danbold]

I moved into this apartment during college with two guys that I thought were really awesome. We seemed like we were similar people and I enjoyed their company.
6 months into the lease, the two of them moved into a different house with some different people and never asked me to join them. I felt hurt, mostly just because I felt really alone after than. conversation and was also just hurt because I just didn't have their presence anymore.
I saw the two of them at a party once and they said, "you were our favorite roommate ever." If that is true, then why did they move away?

[SlightlyCrazy]

My best friend left for a few months for a job
I miss them a lot

[Asker]

I know where you're coming from. But on the bright side you'll probably get to see them again.

[SlightlyCrazy]

I will and we talk
But still
I loose one of the few people who I feel loved by and I care about

[DearLife]

It wasn't sudden. My best friend left the country for a while last night. And I miss her. I don't feel lost or hopeless. Just sad.

[Asker]

Understandable, but if you learned your best friend had go leave without without having a chance to say goodbye and you found out that you'd never get to see or talk to her again?

[DearLife]

That would be heartbreaking.

[Asker]

It is believe I'm lost and me part of me wants to just shut down and give up.

[DearLife]

Do you have any idea what happened?

[Asker]

She fell for a guy.

[DearLife]

Im sorry.

[Asker]

Thanks. She came back today to move her things. She came over while she was there, we hugged either other and I told her to tell the little one's I love them and she left. I was ok while she was here, but not long after she left I started feeling down all over again.

[DearLife]

That's understandable. Give it time.