I don't know if I should tell him, should I?

[Anonymous]

My best friend, well we are more than that. But we haven't really figured that out yet, he sadly lives quite a while from me. But anyways, he knows I've struggled with self harm, and I could tell he was sad and disappointed that I ever did it, but recently I've been stressed out like never before and sad and depressed and I did it again, and I want to tell him but I don't want him to be mad. should I tell him even if he might be upset?

[B_J_R]

I think yes. Yeah he won't be happy, but above all else if he's as good a friend as you say he is he'll want to help. And if/ when you tell him, just remind him that you telling him for support and help. Not to be scolded. It might help me him calm and grounded. Everyone needs someone to lean on once in awhile. And I don't think it will help to keep it bottled up.

[Anonymous]

No! Don't tell him. He didn't help you out when you first did it.

[Asker]

yes he did, he told me I was loved and he talked with me for hours about it. and said he never wanted me to do it again

[Opinion Owner]

Ok then tell him

[iAMNirvana]

Tell him, i Think its the best thing to do.