What do u think about people who wronged you but plays as a victim after fatshaming me?

[Anonymous]

I am 153cm and 70kg. i am on diet n lost aout 6kg after a month. It was hard and full of challenges. One day, my auntie and her kids was at my home. Then I lied down in front of TV and 2 of her daughters came beside me. And started to point out all my fats. At 1st they poined at my thighs. touching em. Calling em chicken drumsticks, and started drumming on em. I was so taken aback but I hold myself. After that they took my arm, and start slapping it slowly. One of em said, can u hear this, the sound of fats. They think it is so funny. I was so shocked out by they acts. I don't know how others feels bout this. Then after that. One of em said. Look at this, she has it here too. by pointing at my belly. I feel like a big joke. And I lashed out. I call em shit. That was the 1st time I ever lashed out like that with family members. I said that I sacrificed a lot, I just didn't lose weight like I want, do u even know how hard I tried. But one of em just start singing JB's Love Yourself. Oh Wow so rude. I said there is no way I would love myself after you pointing out every single fact I dont like bout my body. And destroying every last bits of self esteem left. But then they went back and started to post on fb. Stuffs like they are wrong but I am wrong too. And I am the one breaking family ties etc etc. I will never going to forgive em.

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their mother used to make jokes about my heights. they said. can wash that dish properly? because u r short, can u reach that plates. she always said, I am fat and short. So I will never look good like her daughters. But I was holding back because she was a family i respect. But things just got of the way this time.

[Polocrew]

Lmaoo Try getting flipped off bed by 4 dinosaur sized brothers every morning lmfao You are over acting OP lol they were kids, My brothers are all older than me lol

[Asker]

I am 25 they are 20 and19. Not that young. I was so nice to them. Always helped em with everything and anything. They always make jokes bout my heights and body. If I never tried that hard to lose weigh. Maybe I won't be that sensitive.

[Polocrew]

Lol when you gonna do it, you'll do it anyway. I get that I am not good enough for shit many times but deep down I know I'm perfect beyond perfect is, Tall jacked athletic and godly Hercules chisseled

[Asker]

maybe u don't understand this. i ganied 10kg in 6months. I worked damn hard to fit in into my previous clothes. And feel insecurities here and there. I used to love my body. But they are making me even to a point of suicide because of how i look now. If you didn't know how serious my condition is. I was struggling. So much.

[bryon]

It is normal to want to distance your self from those that belittle you or hurt you in any way

[Allebana]

play victim with your aunt, make it look even worse, "break down" cry if you're a good actress
do you think she'll give your cousins shit for what they did?

[Asker]

Well I am the type of person that cried while getting mad. I was shaking, and broke my tears on the spot. because it was so hard. No acting at all. I just had enough.

[Allebana]

uugh don't let them get to you, you said you lost 6kg already! you're doing so great
my grandma used to say I was fat (1,65mt 62kg) and now she says I'm too skinny (1,68 56kg) "you're too skinny, and you know you're NOT skinny, you know what I mean" duh..

[Asker]

I cried 3 days straight ven to a point of slitting my wrists. that is how hard it is for me after those comments. I have no support system whatsoever.

[Allebana]

you don't need a support system 😠 you need to keep your wrists sane and slap the next bitch that calls you fat, get over it, I know it hurts
stand up for yourself woman, haters gonna hate

[Josht13]

And you let them continue doing this after they started doing this?

[Asker]

I don't answer their posts. Silent treatment bcs I don't want to argue with fools. I know I am right.

[Josht13]

just look like a pushover If I would've tried roasting them about their insecurities and fucked off.

[Asker]

I will ook like fools arguing over social media. They didn't apologise personally So I have no intention in setting things as it used to be.

[harabi]

Well, these kids are indeed shit. Block them on fb and speak to your parents not to invite them anymore. You don;t need such people around. No one does.

[Asker]

Even my mom was mad at me for posting stuffs about fatshaming. So I am deeply saddened by that fact. I have nowhere as my support anymore. I am alone in this. I will continue what needs to be done.

[harabi]

That's very sad. Why would she turn against her own child? Maybe should try again another time when she seems more comfortable. Or.. if the relationship has fallen apart beyond repair.. maybe should consider moving out, given that you're over 18 and probably finished high-school