Insecure about my body? What's new right?

[Anonymous]

My shoulders are broad I'm 5'5 not super skinny... this sounds ridiculous and I know boo hoo me... but any words of encouragement? I live in LA. And everyone is fucking "perfect".

[jp612612]

I lived in LA for the longest time and I admit, the pressure there is enormous. The women there look unbelievable. I remember my wife (at the time) and I went out there for a business trip a few years back and we had a late dinner at this place and were so severely under dressed. I had totally forgotten what it was like.

That said, what I remember about LA women is not that they were all skinny... it's that everyone looks great. The skinny girls look great. The guys look great. The chubby girls look great. I don't know what you look like, but I know you can do you and look great because I lived there and I remember watching women with some pretty big thighs walking along Santa Monica Blvd... and I couldn't stop looking.

[Máiiréad]

Of course a majority of people in LA are going to appear perfect. Most actors/actresses go down there for auditions. Now, I am not saying that all actors/actresses are going to look perfect, but they will have a "look" that is unique and stands out.

You don't need to look perfect, just be the unique version of yourself and you will stand out.

[Xfitchick]

Everybody want broad shoulders because it makes tops and shoulderfree shirts and dresses sexy. And what is your weight? That gives us a better possibility to judge your body. You go to a gym? Have your fat/muscle ratio measured. If your fat content is below 25%, you are perfect as a girl.

[Xfitchick]

thanks

[Theodorable]

5 '5 is about the perfect height.