Self conscious about my body (men please)?

[Anonymous]

I am very self conscious about my body in general but the thing that bothers me the most is my stick thin legs because then I have a fat ass and stick thin legs which in my opinion doesn't look good. I wanted to ask does it bother or is it a turn off for men?
This guy was flirting at me I don't know if he was checking me out but it felt like it and he was behind me so does that mean he likes it? If he likes me does he like my body as well?

[JackofSpades]

I once crunched hard over a woman who was shorter and fatter than what I would have deemed attractive. But over the course of just a few days I began to find her short stubby soft legs to be the most beautiful things in the world.

Just because you don't match an ideal that people hold in their heads, doesn't mean that no-one will find you attractive or even the prettiest thing on earth.

[king_pplayer]

There is lots of different between checking and flirting and I think he was only looking at ur ass then he wanted to flirt u there is so much meaning to an act of someone u may misunderstand just act normally if u dont have a choice just be urself.

[Asker]

I felt like he was looking but I don't know because I didn't turn around but I realised that he would look at me every time and when I turned he would turn away. Also he would get real close to my face and just stare

[king_pplayer]

He is trying and his eyes is failing him ornhis trying to not make u see and still filler but still dont think of thing u may misunderstood and is he guy know u or not

[Asker]

I didn't understand anything you wrote. What is the question

[king_pplayer]

Just dm me if u want there is lots of stuff u gotta learn

[king_pplayer]

TY for misunderstanding im not into that stuff but still how come people think I've let ur 2. choice uve gived me 3 but I dont care as far as every one will act like that

[Asker]

Dude you are not making any sense when you write, I don't know where you are from but I can't understand wth you are talking about or even saying. So try and make it into one sentence.
You told me to pm you then you asked for a pic and if I don't want then that's ok. And who is everyone...

[Anonymous]

So try to build up some muscles in your legs

[Asker]

I try but it's not easy

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing worth achieving is easy.

[tye_spleezy]

It means he liked it honestly if ya ass is fat most of the time no one is gonna care about the rest but the important thing is self love and confidence because that confidence is going to attract other people as well and remember to each is own and beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[omgitstheguy]

Some guys are boob guys. Some guys are booty guys. Some like feet. No matter what you need to find you're own beauty. Rock what you've got and be proud. If you don't like it, put some work into it and be proud of what you achieve.

[bloodyblurry]

You only flirt if you like what you see, I'd you want so e leg advice, rowing machines are very good at making your whole body work, but mostly the legs.

[SnapTsch]

What he was doing or where he was standing has nothing to do with liking you, could very well be sexual.

[Asker]

I didn't elaborate on the subject because that isn't the topic. The topic is I am self conscious about my body and my questions was do guys care about thin legs.
The guy I was talking about is a guy I worked with and I realised he would flirt ask me out and stare a lot, it was clear he was interested. I was wondering if a guy flirts with a girl he likes does he find her whole body/ appearance attractive? And someone already gave me the answer

[SnapTsch]

Well, since others have answered it, I think I dont have much to say.
I'd just like to clarify that I wasn't judging you or punching down on you in my first comment, because I know what it is like being self conscious about your body, since I have been there and worked with loads of people who were going through it over the period.

[Asker]

No I didn't think you were judging I just thought I didn't specify enough and you thought I was asking something else lol. But yh it's tough dealing with low self esteem especially when others see something else than you do.
Also I find it hard to date because of that

[SnapTsch]

I can understand, and if its any compensation, you are not the only one, and out of the people I have tried to help through this, all have been women of all ages.

[Asker]

Women in real life or on here? And how do u help
Them?

[SnapTsch]

I have been trying to help people on different forums for about 4-5 years now.

[SnapTsch]

And in real life as well

[andimp]

Men usually attracted visually at first, especially when they haven't make any contact with you.

It is fair to say that the guy is clearly shown interest through visually on you.

[paulbanyan]

What I'm imagining sounds perfectly fine, but if you wanna change it than you can by eating a little more and doing leg exercises to build it up a bit

[winterfox10]

i guarantee that men don't notice that kind of thing. Just let us make you feel beautiful.

[rutgr]

thin legs and a 'fat' ass is in general wank material, so you're good to go

[chasehub]

Different guys have different preferences, I personally don't care too much about how thin the legs are. If you are self conscious about it them maybe hit the gym.

[Anon-ymous1]

No way to know without seeing you. There's no way to know if he thinks you're hot without asking him. Sorry hon but that's the real answer.

[Anonymous]

you should watch bo burnhams "make happy" special, on netflix. you might like it

[JB1992]

well most guys like curves, so most likely does