Does skinny really matter?

[Anonymous]

So just to put it out there, I am not asking this question to seek out compliments or anything

I just want an opinion on whether being skinny really matters that much?

I'm 5.6" and I weigh from 117-120, and I feel that my ideal weight should be around 110-112? but everyone I ask says that that's gross and I should stay the way that I am?

so basically my question is, is it more attractive when a girl is very skinny and toned, or if she has some fat?

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

My friend is 5'0 and weights 140lbs and I think she's f***ing hot. Yes, she's chubby. But she is hot, has a nice body and everything, and her tummy is like, firm and stuff. As long as her shoulders and upper arms aren't super-wide, the other things don't matter so much.

So yeah. Skinny those really matter - it makes me not find them attractive if they go overboard. Same with being fat, though. You can't go over the limit and have everything wobbling when you're running or even walking. =.=

If you're 5'6, I think your ideal weight is anywhere from 110 to maybe even 150lbs. Anything over those lines might be pushing it a little.

Between skinny and slightly chubby though, I'd pick slightly chubby. It's awesome when the girl has other stuff to grab besides her boobs. :D

[darkknight1x]

It depends on the woman. Some women look better with fat and others are better skinny. Try not to look like Paris Hilton or the Olson twins. The weight you are now is perfect for you.

A couple of students last year in my class were talking about the girl next to me and they were saying that she's too skinny. She has beautiful face and nice personality but she looks so thin to the point that I think I would end up breaking her bones in the bedroom.

[Louise123]

When you are 40, you will wish you were 117 pounds! Do not focus on your

weight and compare yourself to super models or anything else. BE YOU. Be proud of YOU and that you are a NICE person - a kind person - a good listener - a great friend - and care about people. Do you really think anybody really cares if you are 6 pounds more or less? People see YOU - the person... the personality... Do you judge people by how much they weigh? I hope not. Aren't you more concerned about how they treat you and how much fun they are to be around? What is more attractive is that you LIKE YOURSELF - Someone who is hung up on skinny - toned - fat - blah blah blah... sounds pretty shallow. Is that how you want poeple to see you? CELEBRATE WHO YOU ARE.. THERE IS ONLY ONE YOU!

[scar1]

I love how the best answer deosn't even answer the question

[Kattrain]

When I was 5'6 115 was a good weight for me, but you are by no means fat or even chubby :)

I'm sure you look great

[rickyvee]

more guys react more strongly to girls who are slim and toned.

some guys like heavier girls.

the important thing is to be with a guy who's turned on by YOU!

as for your numbers, it all depends on your frame.

if you are light boned the lower weight will look fine

if you are a medium frame you should be in the higher range.

it's the Toned part that makes a difference to most guys.

[scar1]

your oppinion is the only one that matters, its your body. every guy is different but I personally like as many curvs as possible without a belly, muffin top or slopiness

[pilot433]

i personally don't like skinny girl but I like a flatter stomach and not a huge back side

[Anonymous]

It depends more on tone and some guys I know don't even care about that. Your weight isn't pin skinny but it's definitely thin.

[DocClassic]

id say in between...115 or so?