It's funny. Girls just don't value the same things that guys do. Most guys insist that having a large male member, or large muscles are better. Like bigger is always better. But that originated from a guy's perspective. If you're not good at empathizing with others, then you might find it hard to believe that we really just don't give a crap as long as you're normal. Why not ask us what we actually feel is important in a guy? For me I prefer more effeminite men, so might not apply to all: it's a gorgeous face, tallish, sexy, deep eyes, gorgeous styled hair (it's ok to use a curling iron folks) and stylish clothing, and thinner butt and legs looks SO sexy in dark jeans. YUM. Oh, and a mental connection, like being a naturally good listener and having a lot of passion and common interests. Like being an HSP is kind of a requirement for me.
Overly large muscles like body builders are a turn-off. Your size is a nice medium in-between bulky and skinny, but not necessary. I'd happily trade in a buff body for a guy with a dreamy face, and deep, sultry eyes. I suppose the lower body fat can chisel your face, so it may prove beneficial in that sense.
I don't know, maybe bigger muscles are good for cushioning? Skinny guys can be a bit bony on the hugs, and fat guys are just gross. I'm serious. We just don't put as much stock into big, sweaty muscles as a guy that takes showers regularly, smells nice, and styles his hair and dresses sexy. I mean, maybe horny girls like muscular guys cause they seem more driven to have sex. I don't know, but I'm a good girl and never cared for it much. Often I've found guys that are into their muscles have a lot of testosterone, overly excited like dogs (i mean that nicely) and are kind of annoying the way they obsess about their guns as if we're just SOO turned on. It's just annoying and self-obsessed, and I hate the thought of being with a guy who really, truly thinks he's hotter than you. In fact, I don't think I've ever been turned on ONCE by pictures of a male muscular body. I'm serious. But, what I DO think is sexy is when a guy is really considerate, nice and not showy but is really good looking and just so enjoyable to talk to, expresses himself and listens enthusiastically. So then he wears a shirt at the beach but then he unexpectedly takes it off for a legitimate reason/sheer coincidence you're like, wow, wasn't expecting him to be gentle, humble AND masculine. Nice body. YUM, like unexpected bonus.
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Ummm, where do I begin? You should try to tan evenly. When you mentioned 6 pack abs, you should take a picture of that area. With that said, you have a decent body shape.
No.. Looks like an alien..
I already made a poll for that and guys waste the energy in the gym.. Spend energy somewhere better, girls will appreciate
Yeah but this guy doesn't look that muscular, in fact he kinda looks like he's intentionally hiding his stomach. Maybe it's just a bad pose.
Mofo you ain't shredded. If you call yourself shredded then I must be sliced. I ain't.
I don't look like a veiny penis or a ballsack.
Get a spray tan to even out or something.
Girls like muscular guys but most don't like bodybuilder like bodies.
you're not shredded
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Some muscle is nice. Strength is attractive. But I don't go for the body builder look. Bulging muscles are not attractive to me.
Ok but you're not muscular you're just big. That belly is packed with fat, your arms aren't as defined as they could and that fucking tan line baby what's is you doing
I love muscles. Don't care about abs so much as I do for nice pecs and arms. Also nice back and butt...
Many girls like muscular guys.My boyfriend is muscular so yes I do like them. But I dont like those body builders. Thats too much.
I love it... I love muscles. ... are you like giving this guy away or something?
Wow that's a really bad tan line
I actually lift for competition and know how to tone.
You aren't shredded, and it doesn't look like you've done much work. Sorry. Your body is at best, average.Nah I don't like muscular guys
I don't like buff dudes and I honestly prefer the skinny ones
I'm not really into muscles.
dude,, don't skip leg day
I mean it's a bonus but he can't be so muclely that's a turn of maybe just a v-line and a little ab action
mmmmmmmmmmmm! like it
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yes.
show them one as a visual
Yes they do
Mascular yeah
kind of
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