How should I tell him I'm done!?!?!?!?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my guy for 2 years now and we live together. he has been playing games wanting to be off and back on again...he goes and meets girls and then once he doesn't like them he want us back again! I am sick of these stupid games! I packed all my stuff and he came home and kept trying to hug me and asked me to stay.,i told him that I already got myself an apt. He just kept asking me stay...well I told him we can still date but I am done with his games and I don't want any more of his crap or I'm DONE! In all honesty...i just want out! I don't want to date him or anything! I feel so disgusted even when I look at him...should I wait until I'm safely in my apt or tell him before I move in? I know he will get p*ssed and throw a huge fit!

Advice please...he took some pics of me when I was naked and drunk and I am so scared he will use them against me...HELP! How should I handel this?

[thetheme]

Ummmmmmm, just say you're done. It's that simple really. Don't tell him right away because it will be drama until the weekend. Personally I wouldn't have said a thing and just left. Move all of your stuff out when he isn't home, and just move on from there. If he gets p*ssed, not your problem. Truthfully, you have no obligation to tell him anything, just go. But lets face it, you wanted him to chase you around and beg you to stay deep down. Otherwise you would have just left without saying a word. If you are done, he feelings aren't your concern anymore. STOP telling him info that he doesn't need to know, and make sure he has no idea where your new place is.

[ddjenn]

Dont worrie about the pic. Right now that is the least of your worries.. If he is out looking for other girls meeting them chatting with them flirting with them and you know this for a fact why you still questioning it.. You have your answers. Best thing in your situation if you really do have an appt waiting then wait till he is gone one day and take your stuff there. Do not tell him where you live or he will give you the look and sweep you off your feet untill he has you back where he wants you... Is it possible that he would win you back.. If you have gone as far as finding a new place honey the answer is already right there in front of you.

[timetowaste]

There's a time that you have to realize that some things won't change. How long until you're moving? Keep it cool until you're able to move, and tell him you're finished when you move. If you have access to computer, cell phone, or whatever he has the pictures stored on, find a way to access it and delete them, and don't allow it to happen again in the future. Wayy too many problems with pics of that nature.

[Asker]

I can move in my apt sat

[timetowaste]

Alright.. yeah.. in order to save yourself the chaos and hell, I would wait and move your stuff out. It's gonna be a hellish week til Saturday if you tell him now

[marley86]

I would pretend like everything is cool, and tell him you will date him as long as he returns/deletes the pictures. Then, once they are deleted, pack up your crap and get out cause he isn't going to change.