Should I leave if he tells me he's sick of me?

[WrinkleBrain]

I told him that I'm scared to tell him my feelings and I don't feel like he cares about me, then he lashed out at me and told me he's sick of me.

For more context, I've known him for four years and I've been on and off with him. He used to make fun of me with his friends, and he always called me ugly. He even threatened to kill me before. I love him so much and I'm scared to leave him, but I'm always in pain. I'm always afraid and constantly trying to please him. I always feel insecure because I know he's talking to other girls who he likes more. He never apologized for the past, and anytime I bring it up, he lashes out at me. I'm not sure what I should do anymore, should I just give him space and wait for him to calm down?

[sage2021]

This relationship needs more than space. It needs to end! You said it is an on and off relationship and it needs to be off for good.
Did your read this question to yourself. It's so bad I thought it was all made up. Maybe you are making all of this up ,🤷🏼‍♀️ LEAVE!!!

[WrinkleBrain]

I did, I didn't think it would be this unbelievable to people. It's just normal to me because it's all I've been exposed to, and I've been obsessing over him and chasing after him for years.

[Kokoaquest]

Leave him and never go back you're still young and you will have many men who will commit to you and show you the love you deserve.

[WrinkleBrain]

Thank you, I actually blocked him everywhere. I will never go back to him again.

[Kokoaquest]

Good you will feel like you miss him and that you need to talk to him to bring I'm back around to his senses in a couple weeks time but you must resist the urge to contact him and focus on yourself.

[Staximus]

Leave this piece of shit guy already and move on with your life

[WrinkleBrain]

I'm so scared to and I don't know if I'm in the wrong...

[DubiousIntentions]

You're not wrong. He tells you to your face. Are you a woman or a mouse? Get while the getting is good. That being said, your story seems like a troll. Anyone that has even half a brain would know to leave.

[WrinkleBrain]

@DubiousIntentions unfortunately it's not. I have BPD so it's much more difficult to leave, and I'm so used to abusive relationships. I genuinely don't know what a healthy relationship looks like. Please don't be rude because you don't understand.

[DubiousIntentions]

Well if you won't listen to my suggestion, or anyone else's, why bother asking anyone for an opinion? If you need counseling to get your head screwed back on, do it. But you are going to have to want it and ask for that help. No one else can do that for you. You already know what you have to do.

[WrinkleBrain]

@DubiousIntentions man, why are you being so rude? If you don't think I'm being serious, then stop replying and making the situation worse. I am listening to people's suggestions, I just want to make sure leaving is the right thing to do because I've obsessed over this man for years. It's hard to be objective when your feelings are in the way. Also, I am in therapy and seeking help for my mental disorders, but it's not easy to treat.

[Staximus]

She's being real. Leave the bastard already

[WrinkleBrain]

I did.

[Staximus]

A guy should not make you feel afraid or like you can never be good enough

[WrinkleBrain]

I know, I blocked him everywhere. I'm going to focus on healing now.

[butterly248]

Yes. I'm sorry 😞

[ThrillSeeker01]

I definitely would.