Is this what men like?

[TheCheshireCat]

I have this theory about the ideal woman for a guy.

You know how some women just seem to have this "it" factor & every guy would give their left nut to be with her? Well, I think I've determined what the "it" factor is. Please tell me if you agree.

She is:

Fun & Outgoing

Down to Earth

Athletic & into sports

Keeps it real & can get along with your friends

What are you're thoughts. I've seen two girls who seem to really attract men, & these are the qualities they have.

[Anonymous]

Errr. I don't know that I agree with the "fun & outgoing" and "athletic & into sports" factors. I find that a lot of couples usually involve one person being significantly more outgoing than the other, and the other person tends to be more introverted. Sure, guys appreciate a girl who is genuinely fun, bubbly and happy - but she doesn't need to be that way all the time. And the great thing about that pairing is that the more outgoing, sociable person is able to bring the introverted, shy one out of his/her shell.

Also, I know plenty of girls, myself included, who know nothing about sports and it isn't even close to being a deal-breaker when it comes to dating and relationships. I enjoy learning new things, so it's fun when I go to a game and let a dude "teach me" all the ins and outs. I agree with you that most people appreciate a down-to-earth demeanor and ability to be buddy-buddy with your significant others' buddies.

[TheCheshireCat]

That great because I don't know anything about sports & I'm not crazy/outgoing like some people. I tend to be more introverted, I was just making some assumptions based on what I've seen in other people.

[Opinion Owner]

This is a really good question too by the way.

[Swampwater]

Basically this list is impossible to make. The ideal woman for who? The ideal guy you imagine? The average guy? All the traits you listed are desirable. I mean who wants a girlfriend who isn't fun and doesn't get along with your friends? Can people still love each other if there is no "it" factor? Or does that always end in divorce?

I think the "it" factor is relative to the individual's personality, wants, needs, even fears. The fact that it is somewhat indescribable and elusive adds to the mystery :P

[darkknight1x]

Yes but she should also have a big heart,be very affectionate,sympathetic,musically inclined,

have a sweet voice,not have a history of being a whore,non-smoker,non-alcoholic,non-party girl, and funny.

[snackeyg]

Athletic & into sports-No

The rest yeah.

[Anonymous]

yeah those are good qualities

[Anonymous]

You forgot the part about looking like Megan Fox.

[TheCheshireCat]

The women the guys are crazy for didn't look like Megan Fox. They were alright looking, but average. But men still really liked them, I think it is because they had characteristics listed above.