I feel like no one will ever love me because I'm too fat.

[skittles_rainbow]

I wear size 11, 12 jeans, I can fit in a large shirt but I wear XL or 2Xl because I don't like tight clothing plus I'm 38D bra size. Is it true that a guy won't be interested in me because of my body type? I feel like no one will ever love me because I'm too fat...No guy has shown interest in me besides the only relationship I've been in but he was jerk and he ended up cheating one me with his emotions by "loving" me and loving another girl at the same time. I cry almost every night because I feel like ill never be loved by a guy...or have a guy want to protect me, take care of me, want to cuddle with me, kiss me, or hug me...I know this sounds really petty but its true. I mean I do have a great personality I have a tone of friends who even say so. I just don't understand why can't I get a guy...it makes me feel like I don't deserve one. Its really hard to explain all the feelings I have on this. Just can you guys tell me why I can't get a guy...It really bothers me. Why can't a guy like a girl my size?

[Anonymous]

i used to be your size and pulled a LOT of guys, however I'm black and date black guys lol that may have something to do with it... my white friends that date white guys are usually thin (not always skinny but not "thick"). some guys like bigger girls but I think if you really want to attract guys you need to first be CONFIDENT. guys can tell if you don't feel sexy and they won't like you. make sure you dress girlie and emphasize your shape. one thing I hate seeing is a curvy girl that dresses like her skinny friends. abercrombie may not be for you, maybe you need to dress up more. like if you notice kim kardashian rarely wears jeans and a t-shirt, girls with curves look better when they dress more feminine for some reason. I mean you can pull off jeans and a tee I'm not saying that, but some brands don't fit well on certain bodies. you wanna make sure your jeans hug your body just right and your clothes are more fitted to show your hourglass figure. but if you are admittedly chubby then you may want to slim down until you get an hourglass shape or a small waist. you said your size but I have no idea if you're chubby or actually curvy because your shape has a lot to do with it

[lisalu]

There is nothing wrong with you babe.

There is someone out there for everyone.

Men love happy women, not self conscious/self critical women. Be happy with what you got and just live carefree while you can.. :)

[FenFrann]

Coming from a + size girl, I understand your frustration. I feel that way as well at times. we can support each other ! If you ever need someone to talk to me message me , add me .

[mike5150]

A few things on this subject.

1st I like a girl with a couple extra pounds and I know a lot of guys who feel the same. But still get regular exercise because its healthy.

2nd You should not feel this lonely when your only 16. Being that age I assume your still in high school where your forced to see the same people every single day. Once you graduate you will have a lot of possibilitys. Everyone feels lonely sometimes but your acting like if you don't find someone in the next couple of days you will be lonely forever. Please try and relax and remember your still in high school.

[sylar]

You're 16, not 36. You're worrying way too much about "never finding a guy" for your age. Figure out if something IS wrong with your thyroid first, and try to work out instead of doing "some other thing" a couple times a week.

[MsJuleya]

hunny guys should love you for who you are

if they don't they are not the right person for you

dont worry mr . right will come along :)

[ItalianBro]

Do you have something against working out?

[skittles_rainbow]

No, its just I don't have any time to. I'm either hanging out with friends, babysitting, doing school related stuff, or some other thing. I do eat healthy though...my doctor thinks I may have something wrong with my thyroid because I have a lot of the symptoms, they won't do anything about it unless I get the blood test done...im deathly afraid of needles. D:

[ItalianBro]

If you don't have time to workout you probably won't have time to date and have a boyfriend. Thyroid could be the issue but I guess you will never know.