I hate fat people?

[Anonymous]

So when coming home on the subway after work, this really really obese lady literally used her fat ass to push me off my seat so that she can sit. I was pissed off and sort of yelled at her. I mean she should asked me to move Jesus Christ.

Which got me thinking why these far people annoy me so much at times:

1. Fat acceptance- self explanatory so I will move on. But in short, this movement is not going to bring change. People will not say anything bad about fatness but will still judge you. They will do it discreetly which will be worse.

2. Inconsistent arguments: fat activists say that fat doesn’t mean unhealthy but they also say that “healthism is bad” and that some people are fat due to diseases. Yes very logical arguments... not.

3. Slogans like: the fact that my big body bothers you is your problem not mine: Very dangerous statement to make. In public spaces, your big body becomes a problem if it affects space that people paid for (by creeping onto their space, ie airline seats). And no seats are not the problem.
Pay more for the seats. This is basic rules in society. If one seat isn’t enough buy two (unless u have medical condition but that’s a small percentage). Pay more and people won’t give you shit. Position yourself in a way that people are not blocked. this is why people dislike you fat people. Holy fuck

Sorry but enough is enough. Next time a fat person does this to me I’m pushing her back. Next time a fat person intrudes on my space in an air plane I’m wedging a file folder between us and fighting for my space and what’s mine.


More and more I hate fat people due to their behaviour.

[MlleCake]

1. Yes, please keep thoughts that are critical of stranger's bodies to yourself.
2. None of what being fat is or consists of means that fat people should be harassed about their health or appearance. The health harassment is especially pernicious.
3. Airline seats have gotten smaller, and people have gotten more crammed into airplanes because of the greed of the airlines. Larger people don't deserve to be punished by having to buy two seats, especially if the airline is making seats deliberately too small for average sized people - which they are.

So, bottom line is - you don't have to like that people are fat or think great things about being overweight. That's an opinion you can only change yourself from the inside.

But DO be decent and fair to people despite them being larger than average.

[Asker]

Lol. You also forget to mention that dinner plates got larger over the years. Also how come this problem exists only in America? In Asia or Europe this seating issue doesn’t exist.

And you know what’s not fair? Smaller people having to be uncomfortable cuz some fat women intruding in their space.

[MlleCake]

I am not saying it's comfortable for you to be on a plane next to a person who doesn't fit well in the seat. But the people to be angry at is the airlines. The seats were decent 25 years ago - fat people could sit in them and not bug other people.

Yeah, portion size and the food additives and processing we are used to do make it tougher for people to maintain healthy weight in the US. I'm not going to bring that up because it's not relevant to the discussion.

YOUR risk of obesity, cardiovascular disease, cancer and stroke are ALSO higher because of the food too. You don't deserve that. None of us do.

It's not that you need to celebrate another person's weight. You don't have to like it.

Just be decent to people. You'll face battles in your life too that you will want people to be tolerant of. What goes around comes around.

[Poormanscomedian]

That is because no one in Europe can afford to fly, so you have plane all to yourself

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Why not just be happy you didn't have to walk and got to ride a plane?

People are so ungrateful, and just find petty things to be upset about.

Why be angry? Because some fat lady was rude to you?

There's people who have forgiven persons for killing members of their family, and you can't take a little rudeness?

Wow.

Such a basic crybaby generation.

[Asker]

Omg when did I say I’m not grateful? I was merely pointing out daily inconveniences. And I must say if this was the other way around (like a gay person complaining about a thin person) would you react like this? I think not. Unfair double standard!

[Asker]

*fat person

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Itd be the same regardless of size or sexual orientation. Lol

"daily inconviences"

So what? You throw a tantrum everytime something doesn't go smoothly or you feel insulted? Children do the same thing all the time.

Don't be so tragic over whats petty. Had you of even apologized for being in her way, though you weren't even at fault at all here, you would have spared yourself the feelings of irritation and discomfort.

Then an inconvience is no longer inconvient, and our inner feelings do not further cause strife and division amongst us as a whole.

You also won't look like a crybaby millenial lol

[Asker]

Being in her way? Why would I apologize? I was there first. She should have realized that the space was too small for her. She should asked me to move. I’m not going to move for someone else unless asked or that person is old. She was not in this case.

And you still didn’t address this question: And I must say if this was the other way around (like a fat person complaining about a thin person) would you react like this?

[Asker]

I’m not in her way I’m in my way lolz

[Asker]

*seat

[dancing_in_nebulas]

How are you 25-29 and this immature?

YOU:"And you still didn’t address this question: And I must say if this was the other way around (like a fat person complaining about a thin person) would you react like this? "

REPOST: *"Itd be the same regardless of size or sexual orientation."

YOU: "Being in her way? Why would I apologize? I was there first"

REPOST: *"Had you of even apologized for being in her way, though you weren't even at fault at all here, you would have spared yourself the feelings of irritation and discomfort."

You can't read either apparently.

Just crybabying over losing your seat to a stranger. So tragic compared to the people losing their lives to I don't know, contaminated water and no food.

Petty, ungrateful... crybaby.

[Asker]

No I’m never going to apologize for a seat that’s is mine. Ever.

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Lol yeah its yours because you know, because you built the bus and installed it yourself and all 😂

[Asker]

It’s called first come first serve. And I said before, she should ask me to move not just shove her ass where it doesn’t fit.

[dancing_in_nebulas]

Lol you deserved it honestly.

[Asker]

Lol how in the world did I deserve it? I’m sitting in my seat minding my own business.

[DianaWest]

i wouldn't go as far as say that i hate them, but i can't fucking stand when they sit beside me. i am claustrophobic, and everytime a big person squeezes me into a corner, i feel like i am lacking air. i can't breathe and i panic. so that is why i give em the evil eye, or i sit on the second seat when it's crowded, not the one beside the window.

[andreasderjuengere]

I see two groups of 'fat' people:
- Those who have a natural reason (hormones, disease, medication,...)
You mentioned it already
- And those who have no self control over nutrition intake.
From above: The same way that we are supposed to tolerate and respect them, we are entitled to claim it in return.
Indeed, in public 'spaces' there is an imbalance when we think about 'volume consumption'. Especially in air traffic I feel discriminated when I have to pay the same fare as my fellow overweight, and I am not even allowed to add some -lets say- extra 2kg luggage to my consciously maintained 65 kg of body weight.

[FinalVow]

while hating is a waste of energy. being fat is unhealthy. lower stamina, in some cases the weight actually causes physical pain. most fat people are forced to buy 2 tickets because they take up 2+ space. While I don't have an issue with fat people there are certain realities that one must accept if one wants to avoid bs in today's shitty world. by the way if you tried to push a fat person you are more likely to hurt yourself than you are to move them. So be careful

[Richareens]

Is it bad I found this really funny? 🤭😂

[Asker]

Yess

[2plus2is4]

You're right. Sometimes fat people are inconsiderate, most are.
Like their obesity enhances their rudeness.

Though be careful if you ever have to end up fighting with a fat person. Their body weight is super heavy to fight back against.

I have nothing against fat people, but throughout my life I have rarely find any positive traits and characteristics about them. And the rare ones I found were the ones serious about losing weight. So please don't judge all fat people harshly. :)

[MaddyMax]

I agree, if someone takes a lot of space then they should be more considerate. What that woman did you was just rude as hell.

[pervertedjester]

This question just reminds me of this

https://youtu.be/Bi5-4C70DrA

[Astria]

It's okay, I'm sure lots of people hate you too for your shitty behavior.

[Celtero]

Me too! High five! Lets go fat shame some chunkies.

[WinterChains]

Asshole, you shouldn’t judge people based on their weight or fat

[Asker]

@WinterChains u shouldn’t judge others. They are allowed to voice their preferences

[WinterChains]

You can call people who have more fat then you names, but going as far as fat shaming them is inhumane and wrong. Imagine yourself in the person who is being shamed, it isn’t nice. We should be accepting of one another or help one another out. NOT shame them.

[Asker]

@WinterChains sorry but no. When their body affects me like that I’m going to be fight back. Sorry.

[WinterChains]

Of course, that’s perfectly fine. It’s how the person above commented that isn’t ok. Shaming them for something that quite often isn't THEIR FAULT. It can be a disease, eating disorder, or a number of other things that can't BE EASILY CHANGED.

Taking a stand when your space is invaded is fine, but shaming them isn’t right.

[Asker]

@WinterChains ok but I’m also going to fat shame if they thin shame me. Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth.

[WinterChains]

Sure, whatever.

[Celtero]

@WinterChains Being fat is a choice 90% of the time. It's unhealthy and disgusting and shows that an individual can't control themselves and don't even have the discipline for simply dieting and exercise.

[Kellykelkelltik]

The fact that my alcoholism bothers you is your problem.

NOT

[Bjorn526]

What you hate is your old self... when you were fat

[Goforit1010]

Ok... Don't hold back. Tell us how you REALLY feel.

[dizmuhjam]

You go girl! Show these Michelin men/women the way 😂😂😂

[NerdInDenial]

You just throw a bar of candy’s on the other side and she will move

[NYCQuestions1976]

Don't ride the subway and you won't have this problem.

[Asker]

True.

[Siran19]

I had this same problem on a plane recently. I agree.

[JesseTheMan]

You're a bad person. Hate isn't a good thing to have...

[Asker]

Read the fucking article holy shit

[JesseTheMan]

No I won't.

[Asker]

Classic dumbass she troll

[Asker]

* sjw troll

[JesseTheMan]

Haha good way to dismiss someone, call them a SJW or a troll based on nothing... 👍

[Asker]

And it’s a really good thing to call someone a bad person while refusing to look at the situation. Not.

[JesseTheMan]

Whatever you say

[Rissyanne]

So you are going to assault them...

[Poormanscomedian]

No, she is going to try using her skinny ass to move them and have a ruptured hernia

[ladsin]

Alrighty then

[dropkicknj13]

Your giving me more hope for the world lol

[Decentguy]

I also hate that when that happens

[Paris_Beauty]

They hate you too 😂

[Volvagia]

fats r gross