Well forgive, but never forget. Would be better to go on your own paths away from each other. Schools are sone of the worst experiences. Kids are horrible, teenager can be worse. I myself experienced bullying because I was different. I protected the bullied also. The best part, à lot of those bullies are now fat and bald. Get through the b. s. School part. It will get better, you'll met more mature people. And forget the bullies ever exsited.
You are so right Paul I had a bully that was a midget and she bullied me for no reason just because I smell like outside every time we came out of recess even though it makes sense for me to smell like outside cuz I went outside but I never truly care she never got the best of me it hurted my feelings but I act like it didn't so it wouldn't get the best of me so when she like she got the best of me so I had to be very strong-minded and had to really learn self control when I was in elementary school I have super control over my emotions and I'm very strong minded now because of that experience so I actually would like to think my bully if we ever meet again because she made me stronger than weak.
@Paul09 yes, usually bullies they either don't have enough love at home they could have just said that but anyways ummm, I do tend to get Petty sometimes but most of the time I don't acknowledge them and I just mind my own business. I have no friends because I'm too blunt and too mature for this generation. And when I do find friends up in college hopefully they'll have more sense.
Yes, sadly I was bullied for my weight in school and it left me with mental illnesses and been on medications since age 21 and another thing I had to come home and deal with parents not so much my Mom but my Dad, two times in my life I have lost weight once in school I lost 99 lbs than after graduating gained back plus more and since 3-4 years ago I managed to lose 100 lbs and I want at least lose 50 more lbs but I have to say your attractive young lady and I'm sorry you were bullied :(
Oh yes in high school. He sung horrible songs about everyone. I did forgive them quite easily.
But bullies since I have been more horrible to in my reaction.
Maybe I forgave the first bully too easily and just took all my angry out on subsequent bullies. Probably, also, the subsequent bullies were adults, and there's nothing redeeming about adult bullies.
Yes, and... hm - I am happy to forget, not forgive, but atm still have bullying adoptive parents (who keep laying claim to my money, spreading rumours about me and sending dodgy characters as message they will harm me if I don't pay them. Most people not happily married in fact have someone around them. actively sabotaging their well being. It isn't accidental.
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My girlfriend's father set up a nanny cameras because he thought his wife was cheating while he was away. I was recorded screwing my girlfriend, her older sister and taking the younger underage sister's virginity within the space of a month. His wife wasn't cheating but she does masturbate a lot with a lot of really big toys. Girlfriend hacked into her dad's computer after finding the cameras and found it and broke up with me but I still have it and occasionally jerk off to it espicially to her mother. Best month ever, if there was no cameras I wouldn't have got caught lol
I've been bullied by many people. Didn't forgive any of them because they weren't apologizing. If they were to show remorse, then I'd forgive them. Otherwise no. Forgiving someone over hurting you that long and that much isn't something easy.
I’ve been bullied in middle school and I don’t know where those people are right now but I do forgive them. Other people that I knew since middle school that didn’t bully me until we graduated from high school and went to college is also forgiven
The last time I was bullied was in 8th grade and that dude can't walk down the street without getting arrested nowadays. He made a career out of fucking up. Did I forgive him, kinda. I've just got better things to deal with now.
Yes I've been bullied before I did not forgive them I mean why would I? They'd probably just end up doing the same thing over and over again I forgave them once and they just did the same thing :/
I was bullied for being shy, believe it or not. It was difficult for me growing up cause i was so intellectually superior to others that talking to them was like interacting with children. I've always been assertive. You've always been thin and beautiful. We just didn't let them see it.
Recognition of what you are is necessary to improve. If you have a resemblence of being thin, internalize that you are a thin person. Work to become more thin over some time.
First of all you should never feel insecure because not all people are same so is the fingers in your hand. Second for mental disturbances if you let yourself get hurt only then you’ll be hurt but if not then you won’t
forgiveness is hard, but essential From what i can see, you have a nice figure, I hope that helps that someone thinks that. but look with in yourself for things you know are good about you.. Bullies are the scum that grows on Dogshite, so ignore them, know you are beautiful, smart, engaging,,,, Know it, even if you don't feel it.
Ya it’s cool to forgive bullies but only if they have changed. If you forgive them before they change them they will try to bully you again, but if you know they have changed and aren’t bullies anymore than forgiving them is a good thing to do but only if your CERTAIN they have left there bullying ways.
Ablsuletly not, if they haven’t changed don’t forgive them and move on anyways. Don’t think about them just ignore them and if they try to bully you and get physical beat them up or get somebody to do so, sometiems that’s the only way, either that or just cut off ties with them but if you can’t do that then beating them up is the only way to get them to stop or else they will unless you can cut ties. Trust me bullies are scum
My dad told me this when i was a kid... wherever you go in life people will fuck with you as long as you let them... the first time someone gets out of line you have to let them know that your not the one
Don't need to forgive. Just move on. Life is long. Your mind will take onto different things. I was bullied as well, but the best thing I did was cutting them away from my life.
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Well forgive, but never forget. Would be better to go on your own paths away from each other. Schools are sone of the worst experiences. Kids are horrible, teenager can be worse. I myself experienced bullying because I was different. I protected the bullied also. The best part, à lot of those bullies are now fat and bald. Get through the b. s. School part. It will get better, you'll met more mature people. And forget the bullies ever exsited.
You are so right Paul I had a bully that was a midget and she bullied me for no reason just because I smell like outside every time we came out of recess even though it makes sense for me to smell like outside cuz I went outside but I never truly care she never got the best of me it hurted my feelings but I act like it didn't so it wouldn't get the best of me so when she like she got the best of me so I had to be very strong-minded and had to really learn self control when I was in elementary school I have super control over my emotions and I'm very strong minded now because of that experience so I actually would like to think my bully if we ever meet again because she made me stronger than weak.
@Ammi_goldie806 You did it right early on. People still piss my off today lol
@Paul09 yes, usually bullies they either don't have enough love at home they could have just said that but anyways ummm, I do tend to get Petty sometimes but most of the time I don't acknowledge them and I just mind my own business. I have no friends because I'm too blunt and too mature for this generation. And when I do find friends up in college hopefully they'll have more sense.
Yes, sadly I was bullied for my weight in school and it left me with mental illnesses and been on medications since age 21 and another thing I had to come home and deal with parents not so much my Mom but my Dad, two times in my life I have lost weight once in school I lost 99 lbs than after graduating gained back plus more and since 3-4 years ago I managed to lose 100 lbs and I want at least lose 50 more lbs but I have to say your attractive young lady and I'm sorry you were bullied :(
Oh yes in high school. He sung horrible songs about everyone. I did forgive them quite easily.
But bullies since I have been more horrible to in my reaction.
Maybe I forgave the first bully too easily and just took all my angry out on subsequent bullies. Probably, also, the subsequent bullies were adults, and there's nothing redeeming about adult bullies.
Yes, and... hm - I am happy to forget, not forgive, but atm still have bullying adoptive parents (who keep laying claim to my money, spreading rumours about me and sending dodgy characters as message they will harm me if I don't pay them.
Most people not happily married in fact have someone around them. actively sabotaging their well being. It isn't accidental.
My girlfriend's father set up a nanny cameras because he thought his wife was cheating while he was away. I was recorded screwing my girlfriend, her older sister and taking the younger underage sister's virginity within the space of a month. His wife wasn't cheating but she does masturbate a lot with a lot of really big toys. Girlfriend hacked into her dad's computer after finding the cameras and found it and broke up with me but I still have it and occasionally jerk off to it espicially to her mother. Best month ever, if there was no cameras I wouldn't have got caught lol
I've been bullied by many people. Didn't forgive any of them because they weren't apologizing. If they were to show remorse, then I'd forgive them. Otherwise no. Forgiving someone over hurting you that long and that much isn't something easy.
I’ve been bullied in middle school and I don’t know where those people are right now but I do forgive them. Other people that I knew since middle school that didn’t bully me until we graduated from high school and went to college is also forgiven
Yes that's good
The last time I was bullied was in 8th grade and that dude can't walk down the street without getting arrested nowadays. He made a career out of fucking up. Did I forgive him, kinda. I've just got better things to deal with now.
Yes I've been bullied before
I did not forgive them
I mean why would I? They'd probably just end up doing the same thing over and over again
I forgave them once and they just did the same thing
:/
The best response to bullies is to ignore them and be the best you possible.
There's an old saying, "living well is the best revenge."
I agree with that
I'm sorry to hear that hun, you look absolutely gorgeous though 😉 wish I could help more with your self-esteem
Thank you sir 🥰
You're very welcome ma'am 😏
What up with the smirk 😅
Same thing as that nervous blush
Hah i like the quote in ur profile
Which one the offended one?
Yes Mr.
One of my favorites 😂
I'm your favorite? 😏 Jk x
You just might be actually 😉
I’ve never been bullied but I was ignored by the popular crowd as a young teen before I blossomed and got pretty. It really affected me.
Proud of you for getting past this and having confidence now 😊
I was bullied for being shy, believe it or not. It was difficult for me growing up cause i was so intellectually superior to others that talking to them was like interacting with children. I've always been assertive. You've always been thin and beautiful. We just didn't let them see it.
Oh wow I understand and no I'm not thin but thanks
Recognition of what you are is necessary to improve. If you have a resemblence of being thin, internalize that you are a thin person. Work to become more thin over some time.
That's not my body type I'm more thick and I love being thick than thin
Your body type isn't thick
Well you know more about my body than me ah
a third party is more objective
First of all you should never feel insecure because not all people are same so is the fingers in your hand. Second for mental disturbances if you let yourself get hurt only then you’ll be hurt but if not then you won’t
forgiveness is hard, but essential From what i can see, you have a nice figure, I hope that helps that someone thinks that. but look with in yourself for things you know are good about you.. Bullies are the scum that grows on Dogshite, so ignore them, know you are beautiful, smart, engaging,,,, Know it, even if you don't feel it.
Ya it’s cool to forgive bullies but only if they have changed. If you forgive them before they change them they will try to bully you again, but if you know they have changed and aren’t bullies anymore than forgiving them is a good thing to do but only if your CERTAIN they have left there bullying ways.
No they haven't change I just wanted to forgive so I can move on
Ablsuletly not, if they haven’t changed don’t forgive them and move on anyways. Don’t think about them just ignore them and if they try to bully you and get physical beat them up or get somebody to do so, sometiems that’s the only way, either that or just cut off ties with them but if you can’t do that then beating them up is the only way to get them to stop or else they will unless you can cut ties. Trust me bullies are scum
My dad told me this when i was a kid... wherever you go in life people will fuck with you as long as you let them... the first time someone gets out of line you have to let them know that your not the one
Yes, I was bullied in grade school. Yes, I did find the strength to forgive them.
It takes a mature and a strong minded person with confidence to forgive somebody that has done them wrong
I love your answer it truly us
Don't need to forgive. Just move on. Life is long. Your mind will take onto different things. I was bullied as well, but the best thing I did was cutting them away from my life.
I wasn’t fat but I got bullied too. I am still not over it tbf.