For you guys out there...

[Anonymous]

if your girlfriend put on weight is that a turn off for you sexually?

[That-Guy]

One of ex girlfriend did put on weight (10-15 pounds ish) and I still found her attractive.

It really depends on the connection you have with the person. For example: Attraction will always consist of two things, physical and emotional. If the emphasis was more on physical (lets say 80/20) then her weight gain will devalue the relationtion more so vice versa.

I think in most cases, relationships are primarily built around a greater appreciation for the emotional attraction then physical so I would safely say that weight gain isn't that damaging (given you don't put on 40% more of your body weight).

[Matt-A]

Perfect answer. My girlfriend is overweight thanks to some diabetes medications she was on, and although she has more weight around the waist than I'd like, I'm much too attracted to her personality for it to bother me.

[addicted]

I'm so glad to hear some guys say this. It's so refreshing! My ex-husband actually hated the fact that I put on weight. I had a double knee surgery and 6 months later had another knee surgery, so I really couldn't help the fact that I didn't work out as much! I only gained 15 lbs, but he still thought it was necessary to put a collage of skinny models on the refrigerator.....this is partially why he is an ex now! LOL!

[bubblyblonde]

Addicted ~ good for you, ex sounds like a twat and unsymathetic

[Talbot]

Nope and if she wanted to lose weight then we could do that together since most guys either like to work our or need to lose weight themselves (i'm in the middle of the two right now gotta get in shape)

[Ceesa]

couple of pounds? of course not! unless he's there ONLY for your looks.. what would he do if you\his wife had a baby?

[bubblyblonde]

Guess a lot depends on whether they gain weight but totally lose their confidence and inner sex kitten!

[Nooyen]

Distribution comes first. As long as she's not hanging out in all directions there shouldn't be a problem.

[1jdiverse]

not to me the fatter the ass the harder my d*** gets I love it

[MadHatterni]

yes