Ladies. Please be honest; When you attempt to lose weight, what are the real reasons that you do it?

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Being attractive and getting attention? Your overall health and fitness? Or to have a partner or man and be able to be intimate?

( I’m thinking about loosing some weight to maybe enter the Police Academy, or Military but NOTHING convinces ME!) >=[

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DamnSam · Accepted Answer

Well, people think that it works like on the picture... which is far from reality

If you are rich, personal trainer, surgical skin removing and 10 years maybe

Look, I do not want to demonization you, but if you attempt to loose more than just a few pounds, you should also know the downside

I did notice these things bc I'm one of the guys who is into big girls... lot of my girlfriend back the attended the same thing, some are now slim (15 years later)... but all of these now face the same problems

Skin doesn't shrink as much as people hope... legs, booty, stomach and boobs will loose volumen, but then the surrounding skin doesn't stays in place bc the fat structure behind is gone... makes it a pretty floppy unsexy problem...

The even bigger downside, under your stomach, surrounding you p*** y is also fat, which goes also away... this fat provides right now how your V looks, the shape... and unluckily for your future sexlife, how tight it is and stays over time...

But still... some of my long time ago girlfriend are happy now with their life as thin even if they payed a high price

Mustardy_awake · Accepted Answer

Everyone wants to be at an ideal body man or woman. Losing weight is part of that in most of the cases.

Youryeodongsaeng · Accepted Answer

During the summer of 2021, I did attempt to try to lose weight by going to the gym. I really thought I'd be able to keep this up until I had got my first job. I knew I still could've gone to the gym even when I was working.
I will need someone to literally get up and take me to the gym because I most defiantly can't depend on myself to keep going to the gym. I just need someone to keep me in check.

What motivated me, I just really wanted to lose weight so I could wear revealing clothes and feel good about myself for once. I would finally be able to wear strapless things, not worry about how my sloppy my back looks... I think it'd help my depression.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

so I can look sexy and like myself so that others will see me and think the same as me. it feels good to look and feel sexy. feel active healthy and unstoppable. when looking chubby flabby and round I feel down, unattractive hard to find clothes that makes me feel positive and confident, always need to find a cute cardigan to hide something to look cute and the way I see myself perceives onto others and therefore become less likable in a sense.

Horror_lover92 · Answer

I'm actually losing weight, I honestly don't care about being overweight. But I had a heart attack scare, so that woke me up to lose the weight. I was also having feet pains because so much weight on my feet ( my feet is so small I can wear a size 5 in kids shoes ) and I'm like 4'11 or 5ft it was just to much. I use to weigh close to 300 pounds before I decided that I had to lose the weight for health reasons. I have a long way to go but I feel like once I reach 160, I would be a little more healthier. It's still big for my height and feet but right now I'm at 228 and I'm already feeling great physically.

Hangry06 · Answer

I did it mainly cause i wanted to be more flexible and feel more light. Also my clothes started ro hug me around all my curves , boobs, ass. It made me uncomfortable wearing that because all my projections were visible. Also my parents fatshamed me a lot. But i thought it was better to be skinny shamed. I also thought weight loss would benefit me due to GERD.
Anyway my reasons probably won't help you because i was never obese or fat like the pic. I wanted to go from 119 lbs to 99 lbs cause that was when i felt healthy enough

Anonymous · Answer

When I was younger, because of society telling me I was too big because my parents kept commenting on my body, my best friend was skinny and never satisfied with her body, so I've always felt shame over my body and that I should be smaller. Always. My mom told me to tuck in my stomach when I was around 10 and much more.

Now it's more because I want to be in better shape, to get stronger and feel good about myself, and to feel healthier, because it makes me more confident. But also to fight the depression and brain turmoil I have.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Just to add here, it's okay to be motivated by a guy you like or some other not so "popular" reason.

Usually guys start out too, to impress women but later it grows into a hobbie and more for ourselves, not for anybody else.

Medicalbug · Answer

When I feel too fat, I lose weight for me. Most of my weight goes to my butt and I think it’s fat even when its probably not. I’ve been told that men like fat butts but I could not care less. If that thing looks too fat to me, it gets the treadmill.
I don’t think it’s super unhealthy to have a fat butt so I would say it’s probably because I don’t like the look of it. So appearance.

Daniela1982 · Answer

The real reasons I lost weight was for health reasons. I had diabetes which disappeared after I had lost 60 pounds. Also cleared up was aching back and knees, sleep apnea, high blood pressure, and shortness of breath when exerting myself. I won't even mention how it extended my life and helped with my self-esteem.

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ragooo8 · Answer

It should be a red flag for any guy when his woman puts no effort into their relationship all of a sudden starts to get into shape and start dressing real Nice all the time.
Women as far as I can tell usually try to lose weight when there is a wedding coming up.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Right now it's because I want to enjoy shopping again. The last time I went shopping was in October and it was a terrible experience since everything I tried on made me look like a housewife that gave up on life and I am not old enough to be there yet.

theothersider · Answer

I've always prefered to be healthy and in shape. So I have aimed to maintain a good weight and shape. I also enjoy that my husband is wildly turned on by my body being in shape so it motivates me to keep it tight.

petitedollbabee · Answer

I lose weight for myself. Not for anyone else. At the moment I’m working on my thighs because I get chaffing during summer, so I’m working on avoiding that.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I don't try to lose weight, I am actually currently trying to gain and then maintain that weight. But when I did try to lose, it was mainly for "fitness goals", cause I thought and was told I would perform better with a lower weight

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

More for myself and overall self esteem and happiness. Though it is very difficult to find the motivation and gyms are expensive and a long commitment

Dinklex3 · Answer

Health, fitness, and to look a certain way.  I love looking slim and the way outfits look when i maintain my weight.

lrina · Answer

for myself primarily, although i would appreciate compliments on my body as well. however the main reason is still myself.

NopeWhatTime · Answer

Wanting to feel better physically and mentally. It has nothing to do with other people, they'll hate me no matter my size 🤷

charlean · Answer

So that I can like myself, cause if I don’t like me, I won’t believe that other people can

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I want to enjoy a long retirement and boost my social status with other women.

my500thaccongag · Answer

it has so many pros. health, good apperance, and so on

genericname85 · Answer

i sure hope it's for personal health improvement and overall quality of life.

Subarugirl · Answer

My top 3 reasons, I like to look a certain way, health and fitness, better fitting cloths

skyeee_ · Answer

i'd do it to be healthy, as i've suffered lots of random health problems which are actually caused by me being overweight

Chattyguy44 · Answer

I would hope that a bigger lady is losing weight to make her feel healthier and look better about herself, even boost her self esteem.

moonpie89 · Answer

To look hot af. I love wearing revealing outfits especially in the summer.

Nagahime · Answer

For my health and so that I can look more attractive so men will have sex with me and not call me fat.

Anonymous · Answer

It makes feel better about myself and it boosts my confidence.

Sasha_Gee · Answer

Fitness and not feeling good in my skin!

FadoraTheExplorer · Answer

My clothes dont fit anymore and I'm a broke bitch

Kelly6 · Answer

Beauty fit and active  less tired sexy

_alice_ · Answer

Just I like myself as a thin

KatherineJ · Answer

So my clothes fit!

Anonymous · Answer

So that I\ll be able to be loved and respected

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

I want more energy

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