How would you CHOOSE to handle an unintended or unwanted pregnancy?

[Agape93]

Don't start shit on here, it'll be removed and you'll be blocked.

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This was supposed to be women only. My bad

[worldscolide]

It really depends on what my wife wants to do. She has agreed that we would decide together. after asking my wife this question, we both agree it would suck but we would keep it and raise it. But that having been said, that might change later. Its hard to think about it cause there are so many unknowns. 10 years ago, before we got married, we might have aborted it, and while not happy about that choice i understand the logic.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

None of the pregnancies I was involved with were wanted. I left the choice to the woman in question, whenever to keep the baby or not.

My next course of action would depend on whenever I wanted the baby or not. If the woman keeps it and I wanted it, fine. If she didn't keep it, no skin off my nose. If she keeps it and I did not want it, I would support financially but keep my distance.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Update - I imagine that, but seeing it was open to everyone, I put what I did and would have done as a man.

[Pink2000]

I’d tell my partner that I’m pregnant and that I don’t want to keep it (he knows I don’t want children). We would then take a trip to Kansas to “visit his mother” while I’m there I’ll have a medically induced abortion if I’m not too far along. If I am unable to do so, I will resort to other means that will induce a late period.

[DizzyDesii]

I definitely want kids but more so in my 20s. Once I hit like 32, Im trying to get my tubes tied. If I somehow end up pregnant after, I’ll keep it. But im not intentionally trying to birth kids in my 30s. Adopt maybe but dassit.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Well, it’s not up to me to be honest, it’s up to the woman. If she wants to have the kid then that’s a decision I’ll handle. If it’s an abortion then I’ll support her. Regardless my opinion is irrelevant because I’m not the one which is pregnant

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I think in most cases I'd just abort it to be honest (if I'm still in time too). There's a minuscule chance I'd put the baby up for adoption but that depends more on the situation and my relationship with the father.

[BlacklightShade]

My default choice is to keep it but there needs to be options for anything unexpected like unavoidable medical problems instead of rich old men in government forcing me to carry a dead fetus for 9 months.

[Apple1996]

I've had 4 unplanned and 1 planned. Have kept and raised all of them. (One was a miscarriage tho) doesn't matter to me if they were planned or unplanned I'm always happy to have a baby 👶

[JaxiCats]

Depends where I’m at. Me and my boyfriend both agreed that if we aren’t ready (financial stable or confident we won’t have one but if it does happen we agreed we would abort them. If we were financially stable we would most likely keep them

[anon1903]

Plan B pill. Abortion, since India is cool about it. Throwing myself under a car. Etc

[420Rachel]

Well my son was unexpected so I guess I'd have another surprise! 😂 He'd have a sibling to play with and keep him busy lol. 😵‍💫

[420Rachel]

But hopefully my birth control doesn't fail me before I get out of school and am actually ready to have another baby.

[NathanDavis]

I would first talk and discuss so I can decide with her, never ever by myself

[TheoPfeifle]

My first daughter and first son are still around. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[moonpie89]

I'm pro choice so I'm gonna weigh out the best options for me in that moment.

[LazerBean]

Just like an intentional pregnancy.

[Brandi555]

I’d probably keep it.