Is it a good idea to gift your partner a dress that's a size smaller so that she'll be motivated to lose weight?

[YourFutureEx]

Yes. Great idea. It will work

Good idea, but it'll only work if the dress is expensive enough

No. It'll will not work

She'll get offended and eat a large pizza in front of you to enforce body positivity

[AmeerX]

You know girls don't like to be forced to do things. Just make her feel like it's a routing thing. The more you make her conscious the more she will resist remaining smart.

Don't make an issue out of it.

Take the example of a drug addict.

If you take him to see a therapist, the therapist might end up teaching him about a few more drugs he can try without realizing the harm. So, don't make it harder on her. Just do things that make it feel healthy without her realizing anything has changed

[FilmGuy93]

I see no productive result coming from this. The best case scenario is that you also give her the receipt so she can return the dress and get the right size

[AsaKyo]

You sound like a piece of shit

If you're concerned about her weight, maybe do it the uh, "nice" way and work with her, by going to fitness places with her and doing things together or doing exercises at home together? lmao

[YourFutureEx]

If any girl would be willing to workout and eat cleanly, she wouldn't have gotten (and stayed) fat in the first place.

[sunflower00]

No, not nice of you and it will just make her feel incredibly hurt

[YourFutureEx]

I think it'll hurt her way less than her obesity in the long run.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

That's some weak ass passive aggressive shit. Handle your issues like a man, don't hide behind passive aggressive gestures like a little bitch.

[YourFutureEx]

So, I should just call her fat and order her to lose weight instead?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

In hindsight my response was kinda harsh, so I apologise for calling you a bitch lol, but whether you raise her weight as an issue or not, I think any attempt to be sly about it would backfire, coz women see through that shit. If you think she could stand to lose a few pounds then say so. Or don't. Just don't settle for these halfway pussyfooting measures like "oh hey babe I got you a dress that doesn't quite fit, WINK WINK", coz then it's like you're hiding your true message behind a false incentive (ie: the "gift" of a new dress), and these passive indirect gestures don't strike me as productive for a grown man, who should know how to use his words to concise effect.

[YourFutureEx]

I see. The question was kind of a joke so hopefully I won't be stuck in such situation

[SnowedIn]

No! Not the best idea and terribly hurtful. At best they'll think your clueless about dress sizes.

[YourFutureEx]

I mean we can have a discussion. I'll give her this sweet little challenge with a reward.

[NathanDavis]

nice username... lol

[YourFutureEx]

Lmfao xD

[Pohjolan]

No. Buy her a years membership to the local Swimming Hall / Sports Centre or something.

[YourFutureEx]

Will that be motivating enough? I don't think women stay fat because of lack of money for a membership.

[Cubus]

That would not work. Especially if you tell her the reason.

[alice55]

She ´s just going to change to bigger size

[YourFutureEx]

This is cheating

[alice55]

No this is real Life 😹

[Fleet7635]

I would not touch that idea with an 11foot pole

[BJP21]

Do the opposite.

[YourFutureEx]

"Babe, I see you are gaining weight so, I thought I'll buy a size bigger so that it'll fit you for years"

[msc545]

Bad idea and very hostile.