While doing bench press he held both my hands firmly and complete the rep for me together. The weight was light so I didn't get it. I've been taking personal training for the past 4 months with my previous trainer who was female and she never helped me with my bench press like this. She just used to touch my elbows lightly to guide me or push the dumbells so I could complete a difficult rep.
I've been noticing that my new male trainer touches me quite often as compared to my female trainer. I'm still new to gyming so I don't know if it's normal to be touched like this by a male trainer. He also pushed my shoulders down during lat press with his hands, held my shoulders during bench press to correct my form etc. It also feels like he's flirting with me. He keeps smiling all the time with me and laughs at the smallest jokes I make (I do have a good sense of humor). He also does my stretching for me every time whether it be my legs, thighs etc. With my previous I used to do self stretching mostly she rarely assisted me.
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That’s definitely not normal and some clients and businesses would fire a trainer for doing that.
Now, if you like this guy then he has made it clear that he is interested in you. He took a huge professional risk to do this.
So I'm not overthinking right?
Your gut. You’re a woman, know how men are, and was there. I woukd be slightly creeped out unless I wanted to be with her then I would be acting upon the advance.
Well my gut says that he is interested and the way he touched me isn't normal. Did you read the update? I'm surprised he's like this with me.
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It isn't normal I'd imagine. Tell him to stop doing that if you don't like it.
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