Pls someone help me?

[Anonymous]

So i just realized the post that i post on social media, i look short in that pic…. I can't believe it….. I try my very best to prepare everything but always end up making mistake on the crucial part…. At that time i was too focus on wanna show my happy moments (go public about my relationship) that i dont realize i look short there…. I’ve been living my whole life trying to make people believe im not short… so i make sure i look tall in pics… but this time i was so careless…. what should i do? It’s already too late as 400 people already viewed my ig stories….

I really wanna scream as im too tired for all this…. Why is all this obstacles so hard on me….
I feel like i wanna go and escape everything….

[cts22]

I worry about my height a lot also. I’m really short and fear others will view me as too young looking if I ever do end up dating someone older looking. Honestly, I wouldn’t worry about it. Your height is apart if you and u can’t change it. Being short isn’t so terrible and if they’re focusing on anything other than how happy you look in the pic, they’re are looking for something to hate on. Embrace it

[Asker]

So there’s nothing i can do anymore?

[cts22]

Can I ask why you’re afraid of someone knowing your real height? Only this on social media may notice the difference but I mean those in real life already see and still love you the same. Platforms can give a taller effect though if it’s something you really want

[Asker]

At least in social media if i look tall, i can imagine there are people who believe im not short… because not all people on social media have met me in real life

[Asker]

I’ve even have trouble sleeping and wanna hit the wall as im frustrated with this situation…

[cts22]

Don’t lose sleep over it, I’m not gonna invalidate the way you feel about being short. But the thing with social media is that we can reinvent ourselves whenever. While that picture may be up the next one you post u can look as tall as you want because social media is meant to convey what you yourself want. So try not to lose sleep, I do think you should unpack why shortness brings a negative connotation to you though. I’m sure you’re gorgeous short or tall. But in the future Sabrina carpenter manages to look pretty tall in her photos so I would try and mimic the way she angles her photos.

[Asker]

Yes but im pretty sure not all in social media (especially my followers) are as kind hearted as you…. Im pretty sure most of them are judgemental…. And i feel i shouldve anticipated that as im a very cautious person, i dont understand why i was so careless

[cts22]

Your followers shouldn’t judge you over your height, u simply can’t control it. You posted a picture that you were feeling happy in and it shouldn’t be anything other than a display of your happiness to them. Social media should almost be your piece of mind haters shouldn’t effect what u want to post

[Asker]

Im so confused, why does everything i do seems to be a mistake….
Like when i keep thinking of one mistake, then i found out i just made another mistake… and there’s two… and it keeps on coming

[Pyrofox]

Just embrace it as a one off pic. If anyone asks just say u were messing with filters and angles 😅 thanks to a friends photo editing software.

[warsevf]

You again, forgive me if I have mistaken you for someone, hang in there, you will be fine, its done, nothing you can do

[Asker]

Nothing i can do?
So all these years i failed already?

[Paulychicagoluv]

That seems kinda short sided (pun intended). Nothing to worry about being a shorter female.