What is an "Ugly" girl?

[Anonymous]

(1) What PHYSICAL traits make a girl "Ugly"?

(2) What PERSONALITY traits make a girl "Ugly"?

I'd go out with a girl who was physically pretty even if she had an "ugly" personality.

I'd go out with a girl who was physically "ugly" if she had a great personality

[MrWrong]

1) Poor health in general. Two traits that really turn me off are bad posture and smell. Poor facial symmetry

2) I'm not really a Feminist, but I hate it when girls think it's their lot in life to submit to men. A Christian girl kept trying to sell herself as a suitable mate to me, and mentioned "Don't worry, I know a woman's place in the relationship." Even if she didn't fail question 1, that statement disgusted me so much it wouldn't matter.

[Asker]

For 2 -- she meant she wanted to be a home-maker? (What was "her place"? Barefoot and pregnant?)

For 1 -- if you ended up with a girl and she became deathly ill, that would be a deal breaker?

[MrWrong]

2) No, like, completely subservient to men. As in never allowed to win arguments. 19th century stuff.

1) No. If I ended up with a girl, she's stuck with me for good. Unless her health sharply declined out of sheer laziness or recklessness.

[Asker]

Actually, some 19th-century gals might have surprised you, lol. I see what you mean, though. Thanks.

[TurbulentDan12]

There is no singular thing that makes a girl ugly just like there is no singular thing that makes a girl attractive. Its the combination of all factors.

[Asker]

I'm throwing overripe tomatoes at the screen. No need to be PC here. There are DEFINITIVELY traits that make people "ugly" -- at least personality wise!

[TurbulentDan12]

Yes but for example a girl may be a bit selfish at times but otherwise have a fantastic personality. Just like a girl could have a big nose and otherwise be attractive. I still believe it is the combination of all factors and not individual characteristics that matters.

[Asker]

Well, that's a little closer. I mean PHYSICAL traits might be hard to pinpoint, however personality traits are pretty cut and dry: Stubbornness, a taciturn disposition, that sort of thing.

[TurbulentDan12]

I agree but don't you think someone who is stubborn but otherwise is extremely caring, smart, respectful, funny, adventurous, encouraging, etc. would have a great personality?

[Asker]

You just described me to a T -- and coping out by calling my stubbornness "determination"/"perseverance" doesn't make me any more attractive, lol. It's something I have to moderate constantly. I have to check myself when I'm in "the zone" so I don't step on other people's toes.

[Asker]

Thanks for adding the details, though. :-)

[udolipixie]

1. hair, skin, eyes, body, her age

2. saying no, not pleasing him, being 'shallow'

[Asker]

(Saying No?)

[udolipixie]

Rejection.

Notice how when guys approach a girl she's cute/hot the second he gets rejected she's ugly.

[Asker]

Only sometimes. It depends on the way she lets him down too.

If a guy offers you a drink you don't want to accept, smile, say thank you and that you're flattered, but explain that you don't drink. They can't call you "ugly" for being perfectly cordial.

I *have* see some girls get really loud and nasty in their rejection of a guy's attention. Those girls *are* ugly -- they don't have good manners and don't know how to behave in public.

[udolipixie]

If a guy offers you a drink you don't want to accept, smile, say thank you and that you're flattered, but explain that you don't drink. They can't call you "ugly" for being perfectly cordial.

^ yes they can.

Seen it enough times which is why I just say no.

No need for me to smile & say thanks since it was an unwanted offer.

No need to pretend I'm flattered.

Rejecting a guy usually makes a girl less appealing because she made him feel less than.

[Asker]

I guess there are different ways to peel a grapefruit...

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Ugly personality makes an ugly girl ugly.

[Asker]

Sure, but what are the specific personality traits that make a girl "ugly"?

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

shallow, slutty, selfish, ignorant, etc. In extremes

[Asker]

Thanks. What about someone who nags? There's a couple a few doors down from me. She is ALWAYS yelling and nagging and he always looks tired, but if you see them on weekends they look fine. She always looks sort of serious, but they hold hands while they're walking down the street and stuff.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

That's part of what would make them ugly ya, but if it's just one small fault then no big deal.

[Asker]

(It's a loud small fault, lol.)

Thanks for patiently answering my question. :-)

[jimmy217]

obese unsymmetrycal. Fake bitch