How did 1 drain my energy & another/different person restored it?

[Anonymous]

It was back to back. Never experienced this before

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon to feel drained or exhausted after spending time with certain people, while feeling energized and restored after spending time with others. This can be due to a variety of factors, including the nature of the relationship, the person's behavior, and your own emotional and mental state.

When you spend time with someone who drains your energy, it's often because the relationship is imbalanced or unhealthy in some way. This could be because the person is negative, critical, or demanding, or because they are constantly taking from you without giving back. It's also possible that the person triggers negative emotions or memories for you, which can be emotionally exhausting.

On the other hand, when you spend time with someone who restores your energy, it's often because the relationship is positive and supportive. This person may be a good listener, offer encouragement and validation, or provide a sense of calm and stability. They may also share your interests and values, which can create a sense of connection and belonging.

It's important to pay attention to how you feel after spending time with different people, and to prioritize relationships that support your well-being and bring you joy. If you find that a particular relationship is consistently draining your energy, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider setting boundaries or ending the relationship if necessary.

[Anonymous]

I’m a pretty upbeat positive person radiating this glow that makes people think I never struggled in life and everything came easy for me, lol..

but I have felt drained like a deep fatigue being around toxic people.. just because it’s so easy to absorb energy.. but there’s a way to block it out.. it takes a lot of practice and a lot of effort but it certainly is possible..

being around positive energy can change your mood.. get your mind off stuff and most importantly change your perspective on situations that can have a significant impact on your mood

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I’m gonna get slightly religious. But I was my happiest when I was closest to God. Nothing bothered me, nothing triggered me and I looked for the best for everybody. And my intuition was stronger and higher and I felt protected

[Anonymous]

I suppose this was one of my Incubus brothers.

[Sparkie460]

Can you elaborate on this a little more