How do I get my power back?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I have been blindsided. I am in love with a guy who doesn't seem that in love with me though for a time it was the other way around. I was the one who wasn't as infatuated with him as he was with me but over time that has changed and now I can't wait to hear from him. Just to get one text from him sends me into a frenzy.

I want to know how to stop feeling like this? How do I become like I was when I didn't care as much? And does he know he has this power over me now?

[abc3643]

You do not WANT to be out of that feeling!
That's love.

[Asker]

But it's not fair that he doesn't feel as strongly as I do. I feel like we have traded places. There should be a balance.

[abc3643]

Yeah, that balance should be he feels the same way you do NOW.
Anything less than you two being looney for each other is not love.

[Asker]

Yeah and I feel like it's not there. I think he loves me deeply but not as much as I do him. I think because I waited so long to return his feelings.

[Anonymous]

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