Totally! I do have scars though. Everybody does. Many people in life will tell you that you are this or that or dealing with issues. But my response to that is EVERYONE is dealing with issues. By the same token they are judging you by THIER experiences. And what makes them the authority? I always find it amusing when a person with issues accuses another person of gaslighting. When a lot of the time it's the accuser that has the problem. I say I'm totally healed because I've learned to accept whatever a person gives. I don't tolerate f***ery. And if you bring more pain to my life then joy I remove you from my life. In relationships I am a mirror. I reflect back what I'm shown. If the person feels I'm lacking in an area it's because they are lacking in that area. I'm always down to communicate. I'll always listen to grievences. But I'm not going to try to guess what you're thinking. Communicate means COMMUNICATE. I'm OK with being alone. I think that's the problem with most the people in the world today is most ARE NOT ok with being alone. They are trying to find in someone else that which they need to find in themselves FIRST. Because if you're not good alone you're most likely not going to be good for someone else (even if you don't mean to be). You need to be able to respect yourself, that in turn ALLOWS you to be able to respect others. At least that's the way I see it.

Sort of? I don't really think about it, but there's most likely work left to be done with mine.

Completely healed from mine 100%. It took a lot of inner strength and help from loved ones, but I'm all good now.

you never heal from true life trauma, you just learn to live with it

I'm not sure. Sometimes I still think about all the times my mother made promises and either didn't show up at all or was so late it didn't matter and her never paying child support or even contributing financially towards my care.

You never heal from the trauma of loosing family, you just come to terms with it as best you can.

Not healed, but I'm very happy with who I am and feel like I'm happier than most.

Well my trauma was self-inflicted. I had a bad drug problem in my twenties. I made it out alive though. Clean 20 years now.

Nope. I doubt I'll ever get over losing my parents.

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Totally! I do have scars though. Everybody does.
Many people in life will tell you that you are this or that or dealing with issues. But my response to that is EVERYONE is dealing with issues. By the same token they are judging you by THIER experiences. And what makes them the authority? I always find it amusing when a person with issues accuses another person of gaslighting. When a lot of the time it's the accuser that has the problem.
I say I'm totally healed because I've learned to accept whatever a person gives. I don't tolerate f***ery. And if you bring more pain to my life then joy I remove you from my life. In relationships I am a mirror. I reflect back what I'm shown. If the person feels I'm lacking in an area it's because they are lacking in that area. I'm always down to communicate. I'll always listen to grievences. But I'm not going to try to guess what you're thinking. Communicate means COMMUNICATE.
I'm OK with being alone. I think that's the problem with most the people in the world today is most ARE NOT ok with being alone. They are trying to find in someone else that which they need to find in themselves FIRST. Because if you're not good alone you're most likely not going to be good for someone else (even if you don't mean to be). You need to be able to respect yourself, that in turn ALLOWS you to be able to respect others.
At least that's the way I see it.

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  100% spot on!! On everything!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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Sort of? I don't really think about it, but there's most likely work left to be done with mine.

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  Alright I hope you get there!
  
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Completely healed from mine 100%. It took a lot of inner strength and help from loved ones, but I'm all good now.

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  Very happy to hear that!😊🤗
  
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  Thank you!
  
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you never heal from true life trauma, you just learn to live with it

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  Agree to disagree:) hope you find peace!
  
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I'm not sure. Sometimes I still think about all the times my mother made promises and either didn't show up at all or was so late it didn't matter and her never paying child support or even contributing financially towards my care.

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  I see! Hope you find it in you to heal and forgive so you can move on!🙂
  
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You never heal from the trauma of loosing family, you just come to terms with it as best you can.

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  Glad you are working on it👍🏻
  
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Not healed, but I'm very happy with who I am and feel like I'm happier than most.

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  Thats very good! Great progress! You'll get there!:)
  
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Well my trauma was self-inflicted. I had a bad drug problem in my twenties. I made it out alive though. Clean 20 years now.

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  That's amazing! Glad you got over it! I've never touched drugs but I see it can really destroy a person
  
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Nope. I doubt I'll ever get over losing my parents.

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  Thats sad. Hope you find healing:)
  
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I am pretty much okay.

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  Nice!
  
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  It just takes time
  
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I didn't I guess

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  Hope you heal!
  
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- Cubus
  
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  Nah. Just I don't think I had some life trauma in my life
  
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  Oh okay thats good!
  
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Not even close

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  Sorry about that! Hope you heal soon😣
  
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never gonna happen

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  Hope you heal!
  
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Mostly healed

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  Nice!
  
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- Grond21
  
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  Long road, to be healed
  
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- Spongebobssocks
  
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  Yess! But you will get there:)
  
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- Grond21
  
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  I hope so. But can you truly get there in this life?
  
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- Spongebobssocks
  
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  Yes:)
  
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  How do you know?
  
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- Spongebobssocks
  
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  Cause I do🤷🏼‍♀️😌
  
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- Grond21
  
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  From experience?
  
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  Yes..
  
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- Grond21
  
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  Wow. That is incredible
  
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- Spongebobssocks
  
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  Thank you:)
  
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  👍👍
  
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🤐🤐🤐

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  Hope you heal🤗
  
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I haven't

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  Hope you are working on it!
  
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  *hugs*
  
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,,3rd

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