What do you think is more attractive: a lean body with implants or a healthy weight with natural curves?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

My personal trainer keeps suggesting I should be leaner, even another trainer recommended drastic treatments to reduce my abdominal fat. I'm not interested in changing my body just to impress others. My weight now is balanced and I just want to be strong. Then I replied back, "I have no one I'd like to show off to."

This recently led me to the question when I saw a woman at the gym. While undeniably thin, she had obvious enhancements that made me wonder why we can't embrace our natural bodies with beautifully feminine curves, regardless of size or shape.

(As a Kibbe Romantic, I'm particularly drawn to celebrating the elegance and grace of natural curves.)

What do you think?

[bededazzle]

wow your personal river is recommending implants? that seems so bizarre. i like people having their normal bodies

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Nope. He doesn't mean that. But I noticed how he's excited when mentioning skinny women with fake boobs.

[bededazzle]

oh. well i guess that's just his thing

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I hope so. Thank you for your input.

[bededazzle]

wait though, so is the issue you are worried he will pressure you?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Somewhat. But I took 2 courses with him. Now it's over. He told me many times about getting lean. Once he even told me that another lady's in a good shape. At first, I was curious about his intention because I don't wear sport bras at the gym like others girls. But then I started to think he just wants me to be skinny. I said I'm not a model. Why do I have to?

[bededazzle]

well, you don't have to. as far as i understand, a personal trainer pushes you, yes, but to meet your own goals. if you were my sister i'd say get a new trainer

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you. I agree with you. Now I train on my own.

[bededazzle]

yeah, your body is you. i don't like someone else telling you what to be

[NathanDavis]

healthy, natural and curves? how is this even a question... lmao

of course, yes...

[BoopBoopBeep]

Hard to say without seeing you. All the fat women out there have stolen the word curvy from the actual curvy women like salma hayek. If you've got a dunlop then that's actually NOT a healthy weight, it's just had to remember what normal looks like when 55% of the population is overweight or obese. Having been both in life, I didn't realize how fat I was until I wasn't anymore.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I'm 154 c. m. and maintaining my weight around 48-49 k. g. for 5 years so far.
My visceral fat is now 3. (I used to have 2, but I think it's too skinny.) I've never been obese in my life.
The body composition scale only says I need more muscles.
I'm changing my profile soon.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If that's you in the pic, you look great, and your stomach doesn't look big in that at all, which I suspect it wouldn't with a visceral fat of 3 (or probably 4 either, since 1-12 is considered good)

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you. The highest number I got was 5. 12 is scary. I still can't see my abs but whatever.
I'm not going to show off anyways. I'm a teacher and parents keep their eyes on me. Lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

10 may be the top of normal. Haha it's 10 or 12, which... yeah... is super high. I go between 2 and 3 depending on if it's race season or not. Unless your trainers were trying to get you competition ready I can't imagine why there were pushing for anything drastic. May be time for different trainers.

[Somoneelse]

healthy weight with natural curves. For me implants and other "false" stuff makes me get turned-off quite fast. I am more a "natural" person. Weird that you trainer (s) is suggesting this.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think anyone should feel like they have to get implants.

Leaner bodies are more attractive, though.
(Of course, I don't want you to hate yourself if you feel like your body could be thinner.)

[Jamie05rhs]

I generally don't think about these things that much. I only responded because you asked the question. Lol

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Thank you. Jamie. I appreciate your time.

I don't think I'd be lean easily. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

@el_Te_de_la_Rosa. You're welcome. :)

[Jamie05rhs]

@el_Te_de_la_Rosa Your body is GREAT! You're sexy a f!

[Jamie05rhs]

(I hope you know what the term "A F" means. Lol. It's American slang.)

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Oh. I think I know.
Thank you. ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[Jamie05rhs]

@el_Te_de_la_Rosa You're welcome! 🙂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Healthy with natural curves, curves that aren't natural usually look out of proportion

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Fake is not attractive in my opinion.

[OtterMan68]

natural and athletic build

[Joshuaaa]

Healthy weight with curves, for sure.