Which sperm donor should I use?

[Anonymous]

They are both well educated, 183cm tall and healthy.

Japanese

Arab

A total of 21 votes were cast: 7 girls and 14 guys. See detailed results

[Oliverlogan263]

Hm, that's a tough call. Here's a few things I'd think about:

- Features - Do you want kids that look more Japanese or Arab? Just thinking about what combo of you and the donor would make cute babies.

- Culture - Is one background or culture more interesting to you to expose kids to? Would make family gatherings more fun too.

- Intelligence - Both sound smart, but not sure if one donor has better test scores or career that might pass on braininess.

- Height - 183cm is already tall, but the Arab genes might help kids get an extra inch or two!

- Compatibility - Look at things like race relations in your area or family views. May be smoother sailing with a donor families get along with.

Honestly either could make great kids. I'd look at pics or profiles more to see gut reactions. Trust your instincts on who you click with most. Good luck mama! Kids will be lucky to have such an awesome, thoughtful parent whoever you pick.

[RebelinSteel]

One that fits in with your own ethnicity and where you live. You do not want your child being picked on because of your choice. The important part is how a child is rasied, nurtured, taught both morals, values and education. The support they get from both parents. That all counts more than where the sperm came from.

[sage2021]

I once heard that if you want good looking, pick a good looking husband. The kids take after the Dad when it comes to looks.

[aceleon]

i could understand the tall and healthy part but education? that is not a hereditary thing that passes on with genes you know that right?

[AviatorTom]

It's your choice, but for the sake of your yet-to-be-born child, they should look like you and your neighbors, to avoid being bullied.

[patrick994]

It depends on your taste and the characteristics you would like your offspring to inherit.

[SotiCoto]

Better yet, don't breed.

But if you absolutely must, Japanese is the obvious choice.

[Avicenna]

Depends on what you want your child to look like

[Asker]

I'm not fussed. I'm just unsure which to choose.

[Avicenna]

Flip a coin then

[Apple1996]

For sure Japanese

[NYlatefun]

@Apple1996 do you like Japanese guys?

[Apple1996]

@NYlatefun some are cute

[NYlatefun]

Interesting

[strateguy632]

2nd.

[Anonymous]

Japanese.