I'm nearly 32 (age range is incorrect on here) and have no kids. I thought I met the one twice but both times things didn't workout. I currently have a friends with benefits whom I've known for three months. He's mid-40s, attractive and by far the best lover I've ever had. Despite this, my attraction and his is only based on lust and nothing more. Being that I'm getting older and probably won't find the One, I've contemplated asking him to be my sperm donor within the next 6-12 months. It would b via artificial insemination and I would pay the attorney fees to draw up a contract so that he would not be on the hook for financial support. Additionally, he has no kids and expressed wanting to have kids before he's 50 (he's 4.5 years from this point) so maybe he won't want to do it for this reason alone. Anyway, is this a good idea to ask? Would you do it if your friends with benefits asked? Why or why not?
Although he's not on the hook for financial support, I would never deny him the possibility of seeing his child if he wanted to.
Most Helpful Guy
Do you want fucked up kids? Cos that's how you get fucked up kids. Research i to the statistics of children from broken homes vs children who live with both parents still married, there's a huge difference in how they turn out. What you're planning to do is very unhealthy for the child.0
Most Helpful Girl
you can ask it0