How do I react when someone tries to bring me down?

[Anonymous]

There's this chubby girl in my gym who unnecessarily includes me in her category as well.. My gym trainer asked her to focus more on cardio first and then strength, she then asked me to join her for zumba, to which my trainer replied that she needs cardio but I don't because our body type is quite different.. I guess she got offended, because ever since then she's been asking the trainer that whether she's fatter than me etc.. She always comes up to me and says that when are we going to lose weight, etc.. What should I do about her, she's indirectly bringing down my confidence and making me wonder whether I'm fat..

[Anonymous]

I wonder if saying outright to her that you're sorry but you don't feel you are both in the same place, your body characteristics and needs are different, and the trainer reflected that.

Doesn't have to be mean. Maybe she really needs an ally to help her. Maybe you can help her. But she needs to understand your differences.

[jahaims]

Use common sense. You are an idiot if someone being insecure makes you insecure.

[laly520]

she is being too insecure
better keep distance n dont pay attention to her insecurities, they r hers to deal with not urs

[strateguy632]

ignore her. pretend she complimented you