How to help a husband with psychological erectile dysfunction?

[Jaudu]

[sage2021]

Psychological erictile dysfunction is not something he can fix by you being or acting sexy for him.

It's a completely different kind of sexual dysfunction. I believe the only way, if he is willing to fix it, is by going to a GOOD therapist that can get to the bottom of of why he has a psychological problem having sex with you.

Now I have experienced this with someone. He even admitted he wasn't sure if it was physical or psychological with me.

He could do it just fine with other women but just not with me.

He said he has never had a relationship like ours, meaning with someone like me. Someone funny, smart, logical, intelligent, lovable, huggable and that fell in love with him.

He has ADHD and most "normal" women couldn't handle more than sex and short conversationsbwith him.

But I was different because I have an developmentally disabled son that I raised for 37-1/2 years by myself. So, I was used to things he would do or the way he acted.

In the first few months our sex was great!! Then the more he got to know me, it stopped. He kept saying to be patient and he didn't know what was wrong.

But two other women I knew he was having sex with him had no problems whatsoever with their healthy, robust sex life. One of them told me they have sex several times a week with no problems for over two years. That's more than 200 times with no problem.

So, I don't know what to say 🤷🏼‍♀️

[gorydetails]

maybe focus on a lot of foreplay. Plan and spend a whole day with him (but don't tell him that sex is on the table). Take him to his favorite restaurant for lunch, have a drink (but not too many). Dress sexy and look hot for him. Tell him you've been wanting to give him a massage at home, make it relaxing and pay a lot of attention to him. Then give him head.

[Anonymous]

go to a doctor who specializes in that

[jahaims]

Be enthusiastic sexually and ego stroke

[nudeNhorny]

try to comfort him

[In_Trance]

You can't