Are you comfortable in the skin that you’re in?

[Justneedtokno]

Have you ever wanted to change something about yourself? This could be mentally physically emotionally

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For all those that doesn’t understand this is a question about doing cosmetic surgery or filling is if you want to change yourself completely that is the mindset or being open or emotionally. Wish you can take situations or have better understanding of them. This is about yourself only not anybody else nor your opinion on anyone else.

[Babygirl_S]

Would be cool to see attractive white men’s reaction to my appearance if I were a Nordic blonde with blue eyes and the face of a teenager. In my country, people still act as if I’m really pretty. Both men and women smile when they see me. Some people start giggling. Kids are very honest and they react positively to me as well. That said, I know I’d be considered much less attractive anywhere in Europe. I know I have clear skin, no freckles, no acne or dark circles etc. I avoid the sun so I’m pale as well. I exercise and thankfully my grandmother gave me a nice body shape. Despite all of this, I know I’d be made to feel like a clown 🤡 if I were in a white majority country. They don’t even spare Aishwarya, Deepika, Disha Patani etc. I agree that good-looking Europeans look great and almost ethereal but it’s a problem when even the average/below average ones act like they’re humans and I’m a subhuman. Yes you look the best when you do (both girls and guys) but it’s not as common as you’d like to believe 😃

I don’t even want blonde hair etc. but people (especially men) like them the most. So it’s not like I’d be much happier with my appearance but people’s reaction to it would be satisfying.

[Iooap]

I think it’s narcissistic personality disorder you should be worried more about. You also put white people on a pedestal. I’ve seen your posts before and I think you’re a pretty low and shallow person.

[Abu_Kaboom]

@Iooap are you aware though of the horrors, the videos @d_bone_steak posted?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Physically: Most of the time, yes, just as long as I'm not full of body perspiration that's drying up on me.

Psychologically: Happy :)

[ohsheeT]

No I like myself just the way I am I'm not perfect I don't want to be I need to make mistakes just to grow and I still like myself I wouldn't change a thing I mean they're probably be a lot but I wouldn't do it

[EnjoytheDay777]

Less anxiety, better body

[Justneedtokno]

Anxiety is a big one and even for myself I’ve been trying to do better with challenging myself to get over my fear and anxiety of things

[EnjoytheDay777]

I'm glad there's other people who understand who tough it can be. Seems like it's always there, like I process things a lot + worry how I come across

[Justneedtokno]

Oh yeah oh text me I do I feel like at one point I’m not having certain knowledge of certain things you know ignorance is bliss. I was fearless and able to do a lot more but now certain things are terrifying because you know both out like flying on a plane.

[EnjoytheDay777]

It helps to think of better case scenarios about why people say/do things

[EnjoytheDay777]

Thanks for the mho.

[Massageman]

Why risk the surgery? I'm in decent shape for 70+.

[northerngal]

I am very comfortable in my own skin... but always trying to improve. The two are not exclusive I believe.

[Justneedtokno]

Same I believe I think I need to do some more deep digging to figure out what is something that I am not OK with and just target that

[BobbieBoy666]

Feeling comfortable in your own skin is about embracing who you are, flaws and all, and walking through life with a sense of self-acceptance. It’s that inner confidence that radiates outward, letting you feel at ease regardless of the situation.

[PeachyPie93]

I hated myself since I was 4 I used to always wear sweaters even in summer because I hated my body showing even my arms.. which is kind of weird because I was skinny and had a good body. And then I started school and kids were mean so I just always hated being me and would try to wreak my body in a form of self hate.. I sort of accept myself now but not fully but I sort of learned to push all that hatred onto others instead of myself.

[Anonymous]

As comfortable as I'm going to get probably. I think everybody has wanted to change one thing or another about themselves at one point or another in life. I'm a guy, so we're used to rejection, for God knows what. But I like who I am. I'm honorable, I'm honest, I have compassion. And if start going and changing things about me than I stop being me. And there's enough good people that accept me for who I am for me to KNOW, I'm not the problem.

[Wiredone]

Im Very comfortable in my skin. I may not please everyone but those who get to know me are very comfortable being around me

[Justneedtokno]

It’s always best to please yourself before trying to please others and that is important

[Wiredone]

I love myself for who I am. I just be myself, if they like me, great. If not, great also

[Jersey2]

I’m happy with myself. If anything, perhaps having grown up in a less tough area would have been nice. Growing up in Wisconsin seems to be a better place than where I grew up but that is just a guess since I have never been there.

[pascal_climbs]

No, I am very happy with my present body. I was just asked to do a photoshoot for gym clothes. First pics look nice

[EmmaMary]

@Justneedtokno

Since having my BR surgery six years ago, I am quite literally more than happy, satisfied and extremely comfortable within my body... Thank you.

[Justneedtokno]

That is a very brave thing to share

[EmmaMary]

@Justneedtokno

Thank you so very much indeed... If only I knew then what I know now, I would have had it done many years earlier than I did.

It's certainly not something I'm afraid of sharing with any other woman, who perhaps is considering having one done herself.

[Justneedtokno]

I have considered it mainly for health purposes, but then I also think after having children one day it would be helpful

[EmmaMary]

@Justneedtokno

I've sent you a follow request.

[RageBabe]

Perpetual. There are moments I am and long moments I’m not.

[Dongie]

Nah, I guess to be good looking to the point it's shameful would be nice. Just a bit bigger tool would go nicely with that.

[Account]

It is the only steady thing that I will carry with me till the day that I die.
How could I ever not be comfortable in it?

[MicahRaine]

Physically yes emotionally it's been really hard since I was a kid.

[exitseven]

Yes, I am good with me. I have been me for along time

[paledreams]

Very comfortable, I could always be whiter though lol 🤍 lol 😋😅

[sougied69]

Yeah I'm happy enough with the body I've got but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't mind toning up just a bit more! 👌😁

[BradleyScheff]

Sure, little things like personal fitness. Other than that, I'm pretty happy as I am

[Itnykttn]

No because recently a man I assumed was a friend has made mean remark about my looks and it dragged my self esteem down.

[Justneedtokno]

He’s an a. And it’s all about how you feel about yourself never someone else although it can be hard, especially if you’re trying to attract that person but nevertheless there is someone out there that loves every bit of you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes i want to b taller and get plastic surgery for sure

[chocolatetwopointo]

no** opsi

[Effie1998]

I am comfortable being out of clothes by the beach.

[Nikki1989]

Yes 1000%.

[AviatorTom]

I like me, no desire to change anything.

[NathanDavis]

I would like to be one inch shorter...

[Justneedtokno]

Are you sure you wanna be short like the rest of us?

[NathanDavis]

yes, I am sure that I prefer round closed numbers

6ft... sounds so nice, way easier to write/type, and it's just a very neat round number

[Justneedtokno]

I gotcha
I like being 4’11 The only time my height comes out of disadvantage is when I’m wearing clothes

[NathanDavis]

that sounds cute... lol

but why is that an issue? not easy to find the fitting sizes?

[Justneedtokno]

Well, thanks. I think it’s just hard because I’m either too revealing or older but I like vintage.

[NathanDavis]

too revealing? I'm not sure I get how that happens... if you're shorter in height

[Justneedtokno]

Revealing because certain things don’t fit like having a small waist, but the boobs make you have to get a bigger size. But you wanna wear your own size corsets you’re spilling

[Justneedtokno]

So if my torso is just a little bit longer than I’ll be able to wear certain outfits

[NathanDavis]

oh, yes... I see

most clothing is definitely made for average sizes... being shorter or taller, then it does get funny

I always had a similar issue with pants, lol... would fit here and there, but not over there

[MemeSupreme]

i doubt i'll ever be comfortable in it lol

[bowenw]

Many physical things plus my voice.

[Grond21]

Mostly just wanting to be more fit. How about you?

[Justneedtokno]

Think at this point, I am at a healthy weight. I think I want to be active more like walking and getting out of the house to go places and do things.

I think I would like to take more time for myself

[Grond21]

Gotcha. So no cosmetic changes, like you mentioned?

[Justneedtokno]

No, I like my perfectly imperfect body face and I’m cute

[Grond21]

That is great! I am glad to hear that. Many women cannot say the same

[Justneedtokno]

No, I totally get it because we all have our good days and bad days some days you wake up with a lot of energy like today for me and then some days you like not feeling it regardless take the time to love yourself work progress

[Grond21]

Yes, that is true. But much easier to say than to put into practice

[ProbablyClueless]

I am at this point, yes.

[Anonymous]

I am fine but I wish black people were less or slowly removed by raising white children

[Justneedtokno]

See this has everything to do with yourself. This has nothing to do with your opinion on other people. I don’t think you understand the point, but I hope you get help.

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you even ask such a question?
You know the worst thing. It's not me it's them who keep hating on each other. All POC hate each other more than white people hate on us. I don't need help with it. I merely stated reality

[Justneedtokno]

Again, if you read peoples comments that has nothing to do with other people it’s all about yourself whether you wanna do something about your education whether you want to improve on active listening, you’re missing the point you’re just putting your hatred towards another person and that has nothing to do with the prompt. You poor thing where in the world if therapy now please get some because a lot of people are talking about anxiety. A lot of people are talking about things that have to do with themselves about to be blocked or delete this comment.

[plundo]

Yes I am, but I am constantly working on it

[JoeRob67]

Yes all of the above

[FreyaRed]

yes...

[Paul04]

Yes I would say so

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes..

[elizamichale1]

Yup i m

[LiamJHayden]

Very much so.

[Wise4myage]

Definitely.

[ThomasMendoza1106]

Sure sometimes

[Sadia26]

EVERYTHING!!!

[J0shua_009]

Yes I do

[eagle1951]

yeah

[Anonymous]

Not at all.