My mom is very superficial...?

[Anonymous]

My mother is the worst mother for a girl who is insecure with her appearance.

I can tell that she is extremely prejudiced towards overweight people and gives thin/ pretty people preferential treatment. For ex, my brother. He is younger than me but is extremely skinny and my mom clearly favors him over me and my sister. He is lazy as a vegetable and still gets everything from my parents.

When I happen to gain weight, I can tell my mom often gets angry at me for every small mishap I've committed. And when I get thinner, I can clearly tell she spends more time talking to me and letting me off easy when I'm in trouble.

Do any of you have superficial mothers? How do you deal with that?

[naturaldisaster]

Hah, welcome to my world sweety. My mother judges me every day of my precious life. The media and society has ruined peoples mind, and whatever they see on the tabloids and TV is all fake, and no one realizes that. so people judge based on what society wants.

I yell at my mom every time she calls me fat, I'm nowhere near fat >.< I ignore her and don't listen to her at all when she makes stupid comments.

[dIO_oIb]

I wouldn't say my mom is superficial, but she has said a lot of stupid sh*t through out the years. She INSISTS I wear make-up, she basically implies that I need it. My favorite "stupidity" she has ever said though is, (I was wearing a semi-see through shirt and you could see my bra) "Some times it's good to promote the goods" I was like wtf, why would you say that? She basically wants me to whore myself out.

[Anonymous]

it's a good thing. don't you realize she cares about you? fat girls are unhealthy/don't get boyfriends/get bullied and so on. she wants her daughter to be happy...