Why is my mom acting like this?

[Anonymous]

I was going to the market with my mother today, I wore my tight flared trousers and a T-shirt that would cover half of my hips, she tried to put a cardigan on me and I couldn't understand why the weather wasn't that cold and I said I didn't want to wear it, but she forced mqe but I realized that she was trying to cover me. I'm not going to wear it" I said and took off my cardigan then he said to me "how keen on showing your as* " and I looked at him angirily went to my room, locked the door and cried. why is she doing such a thing? My friend has a girlfriend and she can talk to her mother about it easily, but I can't even decide whether to wear a cardigan or not. (im sixteen)

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My friend has a boyfriend*

[Guy13]

Momma knows what is best. You will get it at 21 if not sooner.

[Anonymous]

please don't stay in this mess. try to leave as soon as you're able. your mother is controlling. don't end up like i did... please...

[Bethany22]

If your mom lets you lock your bedroom door, then she's not as controlling as she could be.

[Iron_Man]

She wants you to dress like a proper lady anything that attracts the attention from the opposite sex she won’t like it

[Anonymous]

You are old enough to dress whatever you want.

[Asker]

she decides all my clothes she even chooses my shoes: /

[In_Trance]

probably best to have a conversation with her about this once you've calmed down