I know your dad may be a piece of crap, but your parents had a life before you. They dated, got married , and then they had a kid together. It is very very hard not to have love for someone that gave you all that. Trust me, I question my dads actions all the time even though my mother was not a good mother. Maybe your mother feels guilt even and feels bad. Abusive relationships always end in this cycle where the victim feels guilt, love and feels sorry.
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She probably misses having a husband. She might think the divorce process has not been amicable enough and is trying to make up for it. She may also feel differently in some way. That could be influenced by her realizing that you will be finishing high school and becoming an adult. It may influence her mental image of the family unit.
You need to discuss this with your mother, not us. You tell her what you just told us - that you have detected a change in her behavior and were wondering the reason.
At that point, she will come clean about what is happening between them - which may be a reconciliation.
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First off congrats on graduating
Well my thoughts about this is that maybe she has forgiven your father and is trying to go back to build a family but in a good way
Or she's trying to convince your father to go to your graduation and hopefully he be proud of youbecause people change. Maybe he's been showing more interest in being a part of your family's life. Maybe your mom recognized he's "trying" and has had enough time to think about things, and still has some amount of feelings for him.
divorced people, can still talk, they likely have to, he's likely paying child support etc..
Who knows. Parents can be strange. Or at least we think they are. Ask your mom. She has her reasons for it. That’s too bad about your dad. I know you have your reasons but it’s the only parents you will ever have.
Perhaps they are talking about getting back together.
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