Can I be picked up even though I weigh 160 pounds?

As the title says I weigh 160 pounds. I am also 5’4 by the way. I have always struggled to loose weight because I lack motivation to exercise and when I do try doing it consistently it seems to not work. This being said i have grown really insecure. I’m not fat per se. I do have broad shoulders and a pretty thick waist. Plus that, I have a bit of a flabby belly and thick thighs that add a lot of the weight. I am really sad because I am worried no guy will ever be able to pick me up which, as stupid as it sounds, has always been a dream of mine. The last boyfriend I had tried to pick me up and ended up falling. Ever since then it has been an even bigger insecurity for me. If my problem is my weight, is there any good ways to lose it or anything to help me stay motivated?

Can I be picked up even though I weigh 160 pounds?
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