I'm wondering if a guy would be able to pick me up to like kiss me or for a tight hug. like I'm 5'3 and 160 pounds. I've never been picked up by a guy before. my ex tried one time but that was like 4 years ago and I was only 140. he dropped me. I wouldn't really consider myself fat, I'm a 36 ddd, but my stomachs still fairly flat. I'm talking to a guy I met through friends and I've told him I'm insecure about my weight and he keeps telling me I'm not fat at all. like when I lay down you can see the outline of my hip bones and rib cage. I think if my boobs werent so big I'd be a lot lighter. do you think he could carry me or do I need to lose more weight first. from those pics do you think a guy could pick me up? I've just always wanted that to happen. or even have one of those shoulder piggy back rides. but my ex could never lift me and said it was bc I was too fat. am I really too fat and heavy?
I mean, I couldn't just toss you in the air and spin you around, but seriously 160 is not that hard for me to carry you or put you on my shoulders for a little while. I can still lift my brother and he's an overweight 30 something at easily over 200, and I'm hardly a super strong guy, I don't even hit the gym or have a demanding job.
Short answer, your ex is a little weak and clearly was pretty insecure about it (thus he had to make it your fault for being "fat" rather than his for being weak), and most guys could probably carry you down a hallway or two to the bedroom without issue.
first you are focusing too much of the photo on your breasts. and judging weight through clothes is nearly impossible though the first one does look like you might have some "love handles" 160 isn't terribly heavy and I am not a terribly strong person to begin with sooooo... also you should lose weight if YOU want to lose weight not because other people want you too. self love and self respect are better than changing to be what people want.
Your beautiful , but I understand were your coming from. I think some guys are able to if they are strong but if they are weak... no offense to them. Some girls are very light like 90 or 100 and their boyfriend can't even carry them either. I wish I had your body lol but I came in terms of starting to like it a little more then use too. My weight has always been up and down. My heaviest weight I 178 but now I lost a bit of it I'm like 145. But I feel like I have really wide hips and my butt is kinda big lol. I wish my boobs were a little smaller lol.
I am 5’5 and about 140 and my first ex could lift me. I ran over to him after getting out of the hot tub cause he drove to visit me and I had my arms out to wrap them around him and I leaped up and he didn’t put me back down. He was totally fine with it Not sure if many guys can do that or if he is a mechanic so that helps 🤷🏼♀️
Depends on the guy. However, you would be surprised how strong some guys are. Even if they do not look that way. I am 5'8 and weigh the same as you about 160. I have picked up women weighing up to 180 and it wasn't an issue at all. Although I work out quite a bit and have good coordinative skills and balance because I play soccer.
Piggyback usually is the easiest way to carry someone and I am sure even your skinny ex would have been able to carry you that way. Sometimes you see children who weigh way less giving their mothers piggyback rides.
So what I would recommend is to go for a walk with this new guy and just tell him that your feet kind of hurt and ask him if he could give you a piggyback. He will 100 % agree to it and will also be able to carry you at least a short distance. If he doesn't try to challange him. Do not say you are to heavy. Say that he probably is to weak. Once a man gets challenged, he will try to prove himself. This will also reduce your insecurity, make both of you more comfortable with each other and give him the possibility to get an idea how heavy you really feel for him. Most likely he will have no issue with your weight. So after that, he will probably pick you up during kissing anyways. If not ask him to sit on his shoulders. Maybe talk about how you love going to concerts, but never sat on a guys shoulders and would love to try it out
Oh That is really nice thing , I can do that , but not for a long time Like pick you up for about 30 seconds would be fair But If I had you as a girlfriend , and that was your wish, I would bust my ass to get stronger and pick you up more XD You look good by the way don't worry about it :)
Lol, not that this is funny, but your ex sounds like a scrawny idiot, sorry. And don't worry too much, where there's a will, there's a way, so if the way a to bad enough, he'll figure it out.
well... at least we know where the weight is going to, or coming from. but no..160 ain't shit... but its probably best not to hold that in the air for long.
I am 130-140. Been a while since I weighed myself. Yeah was going to tell her my first ex can lift not only me but my 200 something pound friend LOL! She and I freaked out. He lifted her to crack her back for her. She has a bad back
@hsshannah96 I was lifting kids twice my weight when I was 10 and scrawny as fk lol it's not impressive for a man to be able to carry someone if they use the right leverage.
@hsshannah96 well you probably can't because girl muscles just ain't all that lol unless you work out a lot, and even so, you are like an elf training a melee build, just pick up a bow or a wand and play to your strengths ffs lol
Don't listen to him , every man is different some can and some can't. You beautiful , doesn't matter what you weight, beauty is from within and real men knows how to appreciate that and strong men can lift you up.
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