Do you actually go to the referral your doctor recommends, or do you choose your own specialist?

Like in my case the dentist referred me to both an endodontist and an oral surgeon. Honestly, I'm beginning to see the rabbit hole this is about to go down. Do I save any money by honoring a referral or can I just go see someone I pick out myself based on reviews? Personally I kind of think they give each other a cut for referrals, and I don't know. I kind of like to get an unbiased opinion without saying went here and they said I need all this work done. I prefer not to say anything and let them make their own recommendations. Honestly, I just want my damn tooth pulled and move on with life. I feel like a woman who just went to the mechanics shop and got ripped off. Trust me they get ripped off big time.

Do you actually go to the referral your doctor recommends, or do you choose your own specialist?
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