How many times have you been hit on by a member of the same sex at the gym?

Question

Today, I had a lady (approx 35 years old), hit on me in the locker room of my gym. We were both changing, she was top less and I was fully naked and putting on my tshirt. We swapped numbers and agreed to meet up this week.

Does this happen to you often?

I get a lot of stares while changing but have only been hit on 3 or 4 times.

Lilly1979 · Accepted Answer

Few times some hell I flirted with some not surfer if that counts.

Laura131 · Accepted Answer

At gym it only happend 2 times

fantasticass · Answer

I swim everyday. When I swim, I'm not looking for friends I don't look at anyone, don't say hi, don't talk to anyone,.. I'm usually humming a tune just minding my own business. I recently changed pools because of this problem with other women. I drive to another city to swim at every day, and the mindset is 100% better. No drama 🇨🇦🏊‍♀️

Hellfireandcandy · Answer

Only once at gym and it was an older woman, would have given her my number but she had a wedding ring so wasn't sure if it was an affair or trying to get a threesome or what. So just avoided that drama.

exitseven · Answer

I always worked out in a really hardcore gym where people go to workout and not to meet members of the opposite sex. I was friendly towards people and I used to train with two other people and one of them was female but we just trained together and there was nothing more to it.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not much of a gym goes so it's never happened to me there, but I've been hit on by women more times than I can remember. It's happened to me at clubs, at work, at the beach, at a park, at a zoo, at a community center.

Dargil · Answer

Back when I was young and pretty, I was repeatedly hit on by a fellow kitchen worker at a nationally famous Steak House. I never got mad, I just pirouetted around his "grab", which he probably liked.

nothingtosee · Answer

As a man, I find your story to be really hot. I can't help but wonder, did you enjoy being hit on? Are you gay, bi, or bi-curious? Also, did you have a date with her?

Caliguy88 · Answer

About a week ago I did by a guy that I have a huge attraction to his girlfriend. I was surprised as hell. He’s a good dude. Did not see that coming. Kind of wanted to see if he’d be up for me doing her and he could watch.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Sadly no 😭 but some dude asked me to pose naked, had me sign a waiver & NDA and told me he would Venmo me later... Still haven't heard from him... Odd.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

It’s happened a few times. I simply tell them I’m straight

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

I don't know why the gym hosts the worst people ever, not once have I met a person who isn’t deeply troubled or a menace to society themselves

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Never. But there's a been a few instances in other places.

zagor · Answer

I'm thinking never. I've been hit on by members of the same sex in other places but never in a gym - which I went to regularly pre-covid.

douride2 · Answer

Just one more reason I avoid the gym.

PaleDale · Answer

A woman talked to me a lot one time when i was hard but i don't think that was the reason, she was just cool

Staximus · Answer

Never, I don't go to gyms. They smell and are full of narcissists

Jay-_- · Answer

It's happened to me 3 times at my current gym, but thank God we were fully clothed. Lol

AydenHazor · Answer

Not necessarily at the gym, but fairly regularly while dancing or just around town lol

dougeats · Answer

A few times, In the locker room and once in the shower very blantently too!

katiesmuff · Answer

Never same sex, few times from guys!

Knightwatch27 · Answer

Oh please, this is just pure mythomania. That didn't happen.

Jerre · Answer

Only a couple of times, but I quickly let them know I was 100+% straight.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I would definitely stare at you while you were changing

Anonymous · Answer

and I can fart the alphabet. My story is more believable than yours

Stevepro68 · Answer

Zero point zero guess I'm not pretty enough lol

Anonymous · Answer

Lesbian City girls changing room at the gym Why not

Tarifa · Answer

Never. Nor would I pay attention to it.

ilistengood · Answer

So did you follow through?

Marcia1218 · Answer

She's a lucky woman!

Anonymous · Answer

How did the date go?

Panthero80 · Answer

This has never happened to me.

KarimM · Answer

Never happened to me.

LilLesbLover · Answer

I wish

Desi_Butcher · Answer

So, was she pretty?

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

Never

QuietRunner · Answer

zero times

eagle1951 · Answer

never

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