Former chubby/overweight teenagers what was your teen years like?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always been on the heavier side and it was HELL. I couldn’t wear the cute clothes the thin/slim and fit girls an wear. I struggled with body issues and never felt beautiful or attractive. Plus being tall doesn’t help. I was never the girl guys chose. The always choose the cuter girls, in shape girls.

One of my best friends is petite, very attractive and she attracts a lot of men. Of course because most men prefer petite over tall and big girls. I know there’s guys that love big girls but let’s face it, slim and fit women get the most attention.
I wish I looked hot but instead I was just plain and average. My crushes never liked me back, only the slim and thick fit girls. The hot gorgeous girls always get looks. I was never a thin, teenage. A few of my crushes humiliated me and I got rejected. I know some of my guy friends liked me but I always attached fat or chubby guys. Why do women that are in shape get looks more than I do?

I was 5’10-6ft in high school and had weight problems. I was from 260lbs to 245lbs.

im 6’ft and 219lbs. No wonder I don’t get hit on as much as my stunning friends

[Chazmatazz269]

I was very self conscious about my weight, but it never held me back. I was fat because my mother was a good cook and i like food. I was deceptively fit because i was always doing something active. To this day that tends to be my baseline. I’m fat but fitter than you could possibly guess. I can step outside right now and run a 5k without stopping. It would be slow, i’m guessing forty minutes or more.
I have had very fit years of life, but those are in the minority. I used to run a 5k in under thirty minutes and i could run ten miles in under one-hundred minutes.
I want to be fit like that again but i have lost my discipline. It’s hard to find it again when i take my basic health for granted.

[Anonymous]

Are you fat? Because there's a difference between being that weight and being fat. I know a woman that is 5'11" 225lbs and hotter than hell.

Are you sure you're not just reaching out of your league? Because you said, "I always attached fat or chubby guys". Maybe those guys were your league.

Success starts with knowing where you fit in. And maybe you're not just accepting that the kind of guy you're attracted to is never going to be attracted to you. Sure he might give you a roll.

[Asker]

What are you trying to say? My friends attracts the cute good looking guys but I never do? That was really harsh on what you said. Fat guys are not my league

[Asker]

I AM okay I’m curvy but I’m still chunky. I wasn’t as bad as I used to be but I’m trying to get down to like 165 pounds

[Opinion Owner]

No. Why would I say that? You already have.
You just want someone to throw a hot guy at you that will be whatever you want him to be or to just parrot back the bull💩 you're posting.
I'm not here to do either.
You want help, that's what we're hear for. Buthelp sometimes means admitting your entire premise is wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

At 6 foot you ain't that overweight.

[Opinion Owner]

As I said you gotta start with reality. You ain't 5 foot nothing you're 6 foot. Embrace that to begin with.

[Opinion Owner]

Being 6 foot means you're going to weigh more than you AVERAGE woman.

[Asker]

……..😳

[Asker]

I don’t need to be reminded. 219lbs isn’t healthy but people say I look healthy and I don’t need to be under 179

[Asker]

I AM overweight. What fantasy do you live in

[Opinion Owner]

OK hun, you have a nice day. 👍😆

[Nikki1989]

My teen years were a struggle from 12 to 16, but it had nothing to do with my weight. I weighed twice as much then as I do now. I have photos, but I would never post them here.

[jahaims]

No way you are that stupid. Obviously people who aren't fat are more attractive

[Asker]

Wow you don’t need to be so fucking rude! Get the fuck off!