Why does the physical strength gap between men and women scare me so much?

[Anonymous]

When I was teen I play fight/wrestle with my classmate and even thought he is very small and skinny guy and I'm quite curvy he still managed to dominating the fight that kinda traumatized my perspective about men. When he pulled my arm its very hurted me I can't believe how tough men's body are. I can't imagine pain ufc fighters or men who fighting like wild animals have. I feel really really bad for women who are having domestic violence. That kinda traumatic for me cause I would never be in places where I'm the only woman or only woman without men that cares about me.

[Anonymous]

You learned a side about men that makes you question everything. If it makes you feel any better most men go through this with women as well. I was raised to believe all women were ladies. So you can imagine my horror when i started to become an adult and found out all women were not. In fact many women are down right cold and calculating. Is it the same as physically fearing someone? No. But a guy never knows, even after potentially a year a two with a woman if EVERYTHING she has told him is one big fabrication. He doesn't know if she loves him, if she ever loved him.

[Jackblue]

Well I guess just remember men have vulnerable points too, if he is coming after you punch him in the balls or poke him in the eyes, a good punch to the stomach will also work. Buying mace might make you feel safer.

[Anonymous]

It is always a concern out in public that any man might be able to just kidnap you or hurt you easily.

[Nikki1989]

I have no idea. I would never be scared of any man.

[Abbycado]

You want me to tell why you are scared?