Why are a lot of people not nice to me and don’t understand me?

[Beautylover9]

I will change for the better and not repeat myself and the questions I ask on here. I just want people to be kind to me can they be kind? I am bettering myself and there is so many strengths in me and won't allow myself to be used by guys. Do you think that you will see a change? I don't like what people have been saying about me lately and there is nothing wrong with me. I'm kind, funny, a good friend, my family loves me and I have many goals and hobbies. My disability doesn't define me and I will make better decisions for now on! What do you think? I don’t want guys to ghost me because they think I am worse than I actually am. Being called inability to understand certain things is not true about me. It makes it seem like I'm intellectually disabled when I am not. I actually do understand things. I have learned to understand things more in therapy and I am capable of making my own decisions. Do you believe me? I really want to live a normal life. Having difficulty processing certain situations does not automatically mean I cannot make decisions. Having anxiety, repetitive thoughts, or difficulty accepting reassurance does not automatically mean I lack legal capacity. I am improving my life by making better decisions and I want to be treated like everyone else. What are your thoughts? You don’t think that anything is wrong with me?

[bowenw]

It's impossible to know, but if you repeat yourself a lot, it may annoy some people. I believe anyone can change if they want, including you if you feel you want to. I suggest you live you life the way you want and not worry about what anyone may be thinking.

[Beautylover9]

Yeah but they can’t go as far as saying It's your inability to understand certain things.” and they also said your lack of understanding is concerning. That makes it seem like I’m mentally challenged. I am not. And that’s not true what they said. Why would they go as far as saying that?

[bowenw]

It's impossible to know what they are thinking and what makes them say that. They are obviously disrespectful people that you should avoid and stop wasting time thinking about.

[Beautylover9]

I will! Including the guys that ghost me during hook ups because they think the same thing as them? They are disrespectful and narrow minded if they think that and block me because of my disability?

[bowenw]

You may want to spend more time getting to know guys more before hookups so you can block them if they turn out to be disrespectful and narrow minded..

[TonyMetal___1986]

Have i ever been bad to you?

We have already talked and i have advised on how to live your life and left the choice for you...

If i can help you, i will...

Seeing you happy makes me feel comfortable at the end of the day, but i can't do magic if you're not willing to change your mindset 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Beautylover9]

No you were never mean to me. It’s other people!!

[Nikki1989]

Because a lot of people are not nice people. Very few people in this world are keepers.

[Monoc]

I think you are worrying too much about what others say, please don't.

I think you really need a hug 🫂

[Beautylover9]

Aww thank you!! And them saying I have inability to understand certain things it’s not true?

[Beautylover9]

And why do guys block me bc of my disability? I have mild autism and mild intellectual disability. Especially during hook ups why?

[Monoc]

What things they say you can't understand?

[Monoc]

Those guys are douchebags

[Iron_Man]

Because you’re a beautiful girl they’re jealous of you

[Beautylover9]

Lol aww thank you!! But why would they say “ It's your inability to understand certain things.” and they also said your lack of understanding is concerning. This isn’t true at all. Why would they say this? It’s making people block me

[Iron_Man]

Because you keep ringing up autism and they’re looking for any answer to get at you with

[Beautylover9]

No I don’t keep brining up autism. It’s the opposite. They think I have intellectual disabilities and guys I hook up with block me everywhere because of it. Why don’t guys know what friends with benefits is? That ruins the point of it. They think something is wrong with me?

[Iron_Man]

Well, the way you’re typing there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re very sharp

[slatyb]

What are they doing that is not nice?

[exitseven]

I try not to be mean to you.