I'm losing my mind over this guy

[Anonymous]

I liked this guy for years he seemed perfect, cute, seemed smart, very polite and respectful all through school everyone including the teachers loved this guy. 3 years later I got in contact with him and we recently started dating...HES GROSS! he sleeps over here he smells and never showers he never washes his hair and to top it off he doesn't know what deodorant is. I had to sleep with the window wide open for the past 4 days because he made my room smell (and it deff isn't warm here in new england!) to make matters worse he lives 2 hours away I never see him that much he works at a dead end job and has no education and when he's here all he wants to do is play playstation.

I'm loosing my mind over this guy because perfect he once was and gross he now is! I used to have feelings for this guy... very strong feelings and within a week he wiped them away. I can't take it! How can I let him down easy?

[Lesae]

Tell him. Tell him you just don't feel the same way anymore. Honesty is the best policy. I dated a guy from high school right out of college. He had no self respect. He mooched off of me and was so negative. I just told him I just did not have feelings for him anymore. Also, get rid of the playstation and give him the classifieds!

[Snoosome]

Maybe you should tell him the truth no matter how embarrassing it is - it might help him in the future. That's what I would do.

Good luck!

[lovebird01]

I would just tell him the truth, and don't worry so much about his feelings. He really has a problem, and someone needs to point it out to him. You can do better; just move on!