I'm absolutely losing my shit, What is he doing?

[Anonymous]

im currently into a guy, he is my ex :> great way to start!! anyways, we were a thing back in 2020, but then i developed mad self esteem issues and i broke it off with him, bc i thought im not good enough for him, and trust me, i WAS NOT. i was a narcissistic a-hole of a person who would never accept what she's doing wrong.. but i never entirely moved on from him. infact, i never moved on from him even a bit. he still loves me, he told me that, and he hasn't dated a girl ever since we broke up. he is my first love, and now that I'm in a better place, better mental stability and I'm not the classist asshole i used to be back then, i came back in his life. and im honestly grateful that he's even talking to me because i honestly, broke his heart. i broke him and god i hate myself for that. that sweet boy never deserved any of it.

anyways

we do talk back and forth. our texts are super dry, like, his replies are shit, but we are pretty good on call. but I don't know, im kinda confused as to what he wants? he doesn't want me to see other people, he gets jealous at times, he tells me that ignore him bc i dont read his insta dms and never call him first.

but then again, he leaves me on delivered? replies late when he's online. but he's such a different guy on call. he is goofy, giggly and a fr child on call, but on text he's someone i dont know. what's going on?

im ready to make amends, im just so much in love with him, and i know he loves me a lot as well (he has said it) but I don't know man, i just dont know.

what should i do?

help a girl out, im tryna treat someone's son right ;")

[DeltaRecon]

He is hesitant on trusting you. My wife use to be my ex wife. I finally divorced her because of exactly how you described yourself. I still loved her and always loved her. Because when she loved me, it was like nothing better in the world.

After a few years we started talking again and she looked like she actually changed. I’m finding though that one thing after we got back together, is she is more distant. I don’t know if it’s because she never has gotten over me walking away, or her passion is gone and that spark that she once had is gone. Every so often that woman that I loved comes out. But it seems to be further and further apart. I actually have been wondering if I made a big mistake. I try talking to her and she doesn’t want to talk about it.

So getting back to you, he probably has trust issues and is worried about going through what I’m going through right now. You need to give him time, love, respect, and of course talk to him. Talk, talk, talk. Let him get to know the new you and take the chance at the same time to get to know the new him as some things may have changed for the better or worse and other things may be the same. Good luck

[Guy13]

Sounds like you still have control issues and don’t like to lose…. Perhaps, he’s happier without you or women as a whole. Maybe, you tuned him Gay 🤷🏻‍♂️

[ConfusedGirl100]

You can be honest with him about how you are feeling but you have to prepare yourself that while he has told you he still loves you he might not want to get back with you.

[Kryzo]

I have a simple question. Well, two questions. 1. How long were you two apart?
2. Did you mess with anyone else during that timeperiod?