Are girls too hard on their body?

[Anonymous]

I can't speak for all girls, but a lot of girls think they need to lose weight in order to be attractive. So, I would like to test this by a poll:

Guy: I think most women need to loose weight to be attractive

Guy: I think most women look fine as they are now

Girl: I think I need to loose weight to be attractive

Girl: I'm fine with my body

[Scoopie]

I don't mind a girl losing weight, as long it's within a healthy limit. And yes, chubby girls can be attractive too. Girls can be in all kinds of different heights and sizes and still look pretty - short, medium, tall, skinny, 'normal', or chubby. I can't really put my finger on it, but mostly it's just about the woman, her inner self, that completes the package. So she can be a supermodel, but have this awful personality or appearance that makes her look ugly.

And yes, too many girls that are not fat think they're fat. 'Hollywood fat' is not the same as 'real world fat' and many girls seem not to understand this. I've seen so many different kinds of pretty girls, and very few looked like a VS models.

There's also the 'too fat' category which is not healthy anymore, so for the sake of your health it would be a great idea to lose the extra weight. You just don't need to starve yourself until you weight 80lbs. It's perfectly fine to have some meat on there, it's the curves most men prefer. Those skinny VS models are way to skinny where it becomes just unattractive. I don't get why woman would want to look like that, and most girls will never look like that, no matter what they do.

So yes, many girls are way too hard on their body and have this ideal image they want to pursue. First of all, in most cases it's unobtainable and unrealistic, so it's lost cause anyway. Second, they push it too far where it becomes unhealthy and sometimes even a disease.

[Anonymous]

My sister has an extremely attractive friend that always thinks she is too fat. It's just saddening seeing someone so hot not be confident in their body.

Girls, if you eat healthy and stay fit, you will look good. Guys are genetically programmed to like fit and healthy girls. However, there will still be guys who don't like you. Even VS models have guys that don't think they are hot. Don't worry about it.

And eating healthy does not necessarily mean eating less. Starving yourself is unhealthy. Being unhealthy is not hot. Also, nobody cares how much you weigh. The number means nothing. It's how you look that really matters.

[toulouse]

no. a lot of men are too forgiving of their body. most people are fat. its not healthy.more people are overweight and sick from that, than there are people who are too thin.

[Anonymous]

Everyone is too hard on their looks. Appearance has become way too important.

[tiredofwaiting]

I am very much happy with my body now even a year ago I was .

[TurbulentDan12]

Many girls are. Many guys are too. In general I think it's hard for us to put our own attractiveness into perspective. I say it all the time, girls don't understand how good all of them look naked. They don't have to be some super model or actress for us to be attracted. We're BUILT to be attracted to the most average of bodies.

[ThisAndThat]

It depends on the girl. If somebody guy or girl weighs 700lbs, then their health would obviously be greatly at risk with that. For the most part if a girl has a little bit of extra weight on her that could actually look sexy on her. But that all depends on the girl. her body most of the time can make the right decision for her.

[ryanontario]

I don't know there is girls who could lose a little weight and would be much more attractive to guys , there is other girls who look just fine and don't need to lose any weight or really do anything

[Michaelmwm19]

Yes definitely, all body types can be seen as attractive.

[Anonymous]

well I live in America and so many people are fat that I would say most aren't hard enough.

[Anonymous]

Going by all the fat people in America a lot don't care enough

[chocolateismylover]

Yes, Sometimes. I'm fine with my body.

[Anonymous]

Maybe some but most of it is society driven