Good Christmas gift for guy I’m dating?

[Tianara]

I am going on a second date with a guy two days before Christmas so I want to buy him a Christmas present. What are good gift suggestions (other than sex which I’m not doing)?

[OlderAndWiser]

You should remember that he may be in a quandary about whether he should give you a Christmas gift and he could have easily come to the conclusion that it is too muc, too soon, and that you may perceive that as a sgn of him being desperate/clingy. So, if you pull out a very nie gift and he has no gift for you, he may feel awkward or embarrassed.

Therefore, I would suggest that you puchase something that is not considered an elaborate or pricy gift, and something that is also physically small. If you go on the date and it appears he does not have a gift for you, then you simply keep it in your purse and he is none the wiser.

Another option: I don't usually suggest gift certificates as Christmas gifts, because they usually indicate a lack of thought about the gift. However, since you obviously anticipate seeing him for a third date, you could get a gift certificate for some place that the two of you could enjoy together on a third or fourth date, such as perhaps a pair of tickets to a New Year's Eve celebration.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Wise4myage]

Keep it light and not expensive, because you barely know the guy. So I say give him box of chocolates or a gift card to a coffee shop.

[anon171999]

Just buy something simple. Like chocolate or flowers. Don't overdo it. You haven't been on enough dates.

[josh23992]

Whats your budget, first of all? How much do you want to spend?

[Tianara]

$50 and under

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Usually guys likes something practical. Buy him something useful for something he do and show appreciation.

[Fireguy17]

Maybe some cologne you/he likes?

[PeterSmith1983]

Wrap yourself