Is it better to be single or in a relationship during the Holidays?

[LegendaryDater]

Single

Relationship

[Guy13]

There is phenomena that occurs from Halloween until Valentine's Day. At some point a Singles connection, given calendar holidays, has to be made. It is also big on the dating sites and I think it is called WinterFishing but not sure.

I have a friend that starts end of the Summer at the beach on the last holiday all primed and tan. She usually gets date for Halloween and rides the Yule log up to Valentine's Day. Some times spring and beach buzz hits and Poof.-It's like the "relationship" never was.

[coachTanthony]

Either way enjoy your season no matter what it is at the moment!

[Anonymous]

I'd rather be single than in a relationship for the sake of being a relationship.

What happens during a vacation/ holiday when I'm single? Whatever I want. I sleep in, I go shopping, I visit family. When I'm in a relationship? I get woke up being poked in the back when the sun has arisen because so has he, so I get to deal with 20 minutes of that and then there's no going back to sleep. It's just... Different

[Looksnicholas]

Bliss it is ✌🏻✌🏻☮️☮️☮️👌👌👌😋😋😋

[moondazed]

If you externalize your happiness (only being able to enjoy your Holidays, if you are in a relationship), you will never be truly content.

Learn to enjoy your own company and work on becoming the best version you could be (e. g. through exercise, reading, picking up a hobby, working on your current relationships with your family etc.)

[moondazed]

Thank you for MHO! Merry Christmas 😊 🎄

[LegendaryDater]

Same to you.

[BlueScorpio]

I get a lot people don't want to be alone during the holidays like Christmas and valentines days, but if you are single it's fine.

[savagewolf22]

I choose to be single it's gives freedom lol.

[BlueScorpio]

@savagewolf22 that's okay. As long as you're happy. This year I'm going to spend it with my husband and family over my moms.. what about you?

[savagewolf22]

At night clubs with strangers...
You recently married?

[BlueScorpio]

@savagewolf22 I've been married a year. If you can spend it with family friends.. please do.

[savagewolf22]

Girls life change after marriage? You happy in your life?

[BlueScorpio]

@savagewolf22 yea I'm happy, God has blessed me with a great life. 😊

[savagewolf22]

Aw nice to see. It's still a year old marriage. Hope you stay happy. You have wonderful heart ma'am please protect.

Merry Christmas ma'am. 😊

[OlderAndWiser]

I have done both and being in a relationship is much more preferable for me.

[Looksnicholas]

Better to be single unless someone is alone and has no other family members and no extended family members either, than it's better to be in a relationship in those contexts than be completely alone hahaha. I say since I have many family and close friends and many extended family, I feel like a girlfriend/wife would just get in the way of my love and my time for my family and my good loyal friends.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I think as this holiday is more for family and spending time with them it is nice to be able to have someone to be with specially but it isn’t necessary at all. Just being with people you care about it enough.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I feel like Christmas time is more for family and baking stuff. A romantic relationship could be nice, but it is not needed.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Well pout!

[Looksnicholas]

I feel the same Opinion Owner 👍😋

[Adam1978]

What is important is to have family and friends. If you got that relationship status doesn't matter.

[jaketowt]

It depends on what you have otherwise, but personally, I like having a partner for the holidays. While I personally hate gift shopping (and receiving) there is something about making your partner happy. Now I have a sister and she has kids, so those years that I didn't have someone I just spoiled them. But it's nice to spoil your partner too.

[LiamJHayden]

If you are happy with yourself, it doesn't matter. If you are unhappy with yourself, single. No reason to make someone else miserable.

[Ninania]

It's best to thrive however that looks like for the individual person. I prefer spending time with good people, though I'd rather be single than in a toxic relationship. Context matters.

[Looksnicholas]

Context indeed, just like my own answer 👍🥳

[Looksnicholas]

Similarly 🥳🥳

[kramchancel]

As a single man i wish i have someone to cuddle with or buy gifts for

[DaisyM23]

either is fine tbf as long as you have someone you love

[Looksnicholas]

Or family or friends 👌🥰

[Reece12345]

Simple, for me. I like to share my holidays with someone I love.

[Anonymous]

honestly both suck. you have to buy gifts and you have to visit SO's family. if you're single you have to buy gifts and visit your family. it's all very ugh.

[Ashtonnotreal]

It’s good not to be alone but the title of whoever your with shouldn’t matter. It’s just better to have company on special days like that

[anon1903]

Single. Holidays are all about gift giving. Barf!

[Anonymous]

It totally depends. If you have great dating prospects, the holidays are a good time to cash in on them. On the other hand if you have a SMOKING hottie for a girlfriend, it's a great time to just hide away and have non-stop sex for days.

[Anonymous]

Either way is fine. I'm single this year and can fuck who I want, if I have a boyfriend it's nice too.

[RealMarek]

That depends on whether or not the relationship is healthy.

[cth2188]

It would be nice to be in a few if ever one was right... the challenge

[dowser19]

It's better to be single nowadays at ANY point in the year.😎