A guy who is married mentioned his wife for the first time in a conversation I was shocked bc he never mentioned his wife to me in conversations?

[Anonymous]

It seemed as he would hide her, but today he actually mentioned what he did for new years and that he played with his kids and went to bed with his wife, I was shocked he mentioned her bc everyday since we be talking he never mentioned his wife yet he would always try to flirt and bug me etc maybe he really loves his wife after all any particular reason why he mentioned her for the first time? He did say he was married from begging but never was he this specific

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that is hella suspicious. Sounds like this guy was tryna hide the fact that he's married the whole time you guys been talking.

My guess is he finally said something specific about his wife 'cause he feels himself slipping up and flirting too much with you. Maybe his conscience was hitting him so he had to throw in a little "oh by the way I went to bed with the wife" to remind you and himself that he's off limits.

Or maybe someone close to him found out about you guys talking all the time and gave him a reality check. Either way, it's good he finally came clean - but pretty messed up he tried hiding her in the first place!

I'd be careful dealing with this dude cause who knows what else he's not telling you. And even if he says he's just being "friendly," guys in relationships shouldn't be flirting around like that. Watch your back!

[Danny_dan92]

Did you know he was married?

[Asker]

Clearly he mentioned it first time he came working yet never in our conversations did he mention her only once when asking me if I thought he was attractive and I said why don’t you ask you’re wife he was like she thinks I’m ugly that was way back now todau he was talking about how he spended his new years and mentioned he was with his wife and kids etc I was literally shocked in a good way I guess he being faithful now

[Danny_dan92]

If his wife thinks he’s ugly why tf did she marry him…. Lmao you see how stupid that sounds? I see right through his shit.

He just wants to receive compliments from other women and possibly even fuck other women.

Back off. Don’t proceed. Be a good person

[Asker]

Well if he clearly mentioned his wifey today I believe he is being faithful now and maybe his hinting to me that hey im actually not interested in you as you thought I was or he feels guilty I don't know

[Asker]

Bc like I said he never mentioned his wife like
He did today in a good way

[Danny_dan92]

A holiday just passed. So. Yeah

[Asker]

Yeaa soo maybe he is being faithful after all

[Asker]

Or I misread him all this time thinking he wanted more

[Danny_dan92]

Cool. Move on now 👍🏼